15/01/2026
The guys name is Sazzad Safi Safin . He is from 86 BMA long course. Our relationship started in 2023. We moved forward slowly, and in December 2023 our relationship began. In 2024, we officially committed to each other. He promised he would stay with me and marry me. Because of that, he introduced me to his mother. After some time, he met my mother on his own as well. Both of our families knew about our relationship.
After few months of our relationship i got to know he lied to me about his past as well. That he was a literal womaniser .His ex texted me to say why is sazzad calling her when he is in a relationship with me. Three of his other exes contacted me themselves and told me about his stories otherwise I wouldnât have known. By then it was already very late in our relationship. When I confronted him about those things he said the past is past past canât be changed and should be forgotten. I also tried to accept that and let the past go.
But in October 2024, i got solid proof that he cheated on me. This was only the first time tho. Later i got to know He was doing this the whole time. He approached a girl asking her out and telling that he was single. The girl didnât know about me at the time. When she found out sazzad had a gf, she contacted me to tell everything and gave proof of what Sazzad had been doing. In those conversations sazzad clearly said he was single and carried the conversation further. I have attached the chats of the girl with him down. When I confronted him, he refused to admit it, even though there was clear evidence.
After that, I stopped talking to him. He cried a lot and repeatedly called my brother, although I never told my family about the situation. I still had a soft corner for him. Every day he sent videos, voice messages, and pictures showing how much he was suffering. His mother also called me to accept him again. After a few days, because of that soft corner, I contacted him again. During this whole time, he repeatedly promised to marry me. He said he would permission to marry in 2026 and then he will marry me. I sacrificed a lot in my personal life to be with him, believed him all the way. Meanwhile, I had a good relationship with his family. Almost everyone in his family knew about me, and my family knew about him too.
Later on after our breakup i got to know he was talking to other girls as well .
But on February 6, 2026, everything changed. He suddenly said he would no longer stay with me and broke up with me. I couldnât accept the breakup because our two years and one month together would be completed on the 9th. I thought maybe something was wrong . why would he suddenly make such a decision? The day after the breakup, I cried through texts, called him, and begged him desperately, but he only saw the messages and didnât reply for two days. After that, I stopped contacting him myself. I began to suspect he was involved with someone else.
Six or seven days later, I found out he was already in a relationship with a junior from his cantonment. The girl passed out in December 2025 and joined the army. Within less than a month after our breakup, he was already going out with her and getting physically involved.
After some digging, I found out he was already going out the girl during the time of our relationship. Thats why he broke up with me to avoid the double timing. He is openly going out with her, taking pictures holding hands and with his arm around her shoulder. After so many promises about the future, how can a person move on like this within just 8 days?
Later, when I confronted him and said I would expose what he had done, he started crying and begging, and asked his mother to call me. Now he says this new relationship was arranged by his parents long ago, and that the girl is his fatherâs friendâs daughter. Yet at the same time, he says he loved me and still respects me.
His mother also called me crying, asking me to forgive her son and not damage his image, saying, âYou are a girl too.â They claim the family had already decided on this girl long ago. But if that was true, why was he with me for two years? Why did he do this to me?
Now his parents are completely denying everything. They say, âYou werenât that serious; we thought you were just friends.â
But I know how my two years were spent. I know what I did for him. Today he denies everything as if nothing ever existed between us.
Someone who can change relationships so easily was never truly serious in the first place. He thinks women are stupid and that i am a fool. Because he also mentioned this to my mutuals I wouldnât know much to do anything bad to him. Whatever he did to me I tolerated everything back then. He thinks Iâm a fool that Iâll stay quiet like this my whole life and never do anything. If he could think about getting into a relationship with someone else or talk to someone while he was still with me then now it feels like it wasnât just this one person he might have been involved with several others while being with me which I still donât know about.
Now heâs already in a relationship with someone. And his parents are also involved in this. His mother always keeps saying it was a family matter that it was family-related . But now she asks when did even our relationship became deep ?
He always lied to me about his life. He even lied about his past relationships with women. Then I caught him trying for other women while I was still with him ,thatâs where the real problems began. I never had an issue with his past but now i know there wasnât much honesty in the whole time of our relationship either.
This man has serious character issues . I couldnt understand that during my relationship. After knowing all these cheating and immoral things he used to do i am shocked. I wanted to let the world know as well , how horrible of a person he is so that no girl in future gets tricked by this characterless man.
