26/10/2021
I’ve been spending a fair number of hours making curtains this week and it’s been eye opening let me tell you.
I’ve been measuring, pinning, cutting, re-measuring. I’ve fallen out with rulers, lost the scissors more times than I can count and never folded so much in my life.
Why am I telling you this? Well…
This process has been such a great example of how focusing too much on the outcome you want can actually jeopardise its success.
I’ll explain.
I’ve been making these curtains under the careful watch and supervision of a very talented (and patient!) and hugely experienced teacher and creator, my mother!
Don’t get me wrong however, I’m invested. These particular curtains are for me!
I can’t wait for them to hang elegantly in front of my French doors. I can’t wait to no longer be a fish bowl when it gets dark and to draw them each evening for that snug feeling.
PS - it’s this ‘investment’ that can cause us to lose ourselves in the end product and much like me and my curtains, when it comes to your business, believe me you’re invested.
Focusing on what I want however is NOT what’s going to get me the outcome I’m so eager to get to. Paying attention to the numbers on the ruler, the intricacies, the double checking and checking again… this is what’s important.
Understanding how the fabric moves and behaves, choosing the right colour thread and getting that set square even when I really don’t want to know if it’s out again… this is the stuff that will get me the curtains, the outcome and the result that I truly want.
So next time you find yourself gunning for the finish line at a relentless pace and not stopping to see if you’re in the right race… take a moment and remember the curtains, remember to focus on the detail, doing it well and doing it right and the result will take care of itself.