11/06/2026
I WAS NOT ARRESTED. But What Happened During My 6-Day Disappearance Shocked Me.
And honestly, the fact that I even have to write that sentence is something I never expected.
Six days ago, I disappeared from social media.
No Facebook.
No Instagram.
No news.
No endless scrolling.
No phon Call.
No unnecessary conversations.
Just silence.
Then yesterday, something happened that made me realize I needed to come back online and address a few things.
I was on Lagos Mainland for something personal when someone recognized me and said:
"Ah! Are you not Iking Ferry?"
We started talking.
Then another person asked me a question that caught me completely off guard.
He said:
"I heard you were arrested... That's why you are not longer posting as usual"
I laughed.
"Arrested for what?"
Then he showed me a Facebook post where someone claimed I was arrested because of one of my previous posts.
That was when I realized something important.
Many of you genuinely care about my well-being.
And for that, I am grateful.
So let me clear the air.
I was not arrested.
Nobody arrested me.
And nobody has any reason to arrest me.
I don't spend my time attacking people.
I don't spend my time attacking governments.
I believe there is a difference between criticism and recommendation.
A criticism points fingers.
A recommendation points towards improvement.
The post many people are referring to was simply my personal opinion on the recent viral news in Ebonyi State where I talk about how public projects should be delivered and communicated.
Nothing more.
Now that we have settled that, let me tell you where I have been.
For years, I have developed a personal habit that many people find strange.
Sometimes I disappear.
Completely.
Not because I am angry.
Not because I am depressed.
Not because something is wrong.
But because silence is necessary for growth.
And that's why I use to tell people close to me that I live a boring lifestyle.
Most people spend all their time consuming information.
Very few people spend time processing information.
There is a difference.
Sometimes the greatest investment you can make is not another course.
Not another business.
Not another meeting.
Not another social media post.
Sometimes the greatest investment is stepping away long enough to think.
To reflect.
To evaluate your life.
To ask difficult questions.
Am I growing?
Am I improving?
Am I building the right things?
Am I becoming the person I need to become?
These are questions social media cannot answer for you.
You need silence for that.
And that is what I call Seclusion.
A period where I intentionally disconnect from noise and reconnect with purpose.
Some years ago, I use to stayed away for 6 months.
This time, I intended to stay away for three weeks too.
But something changed.
I realized that what I started as a social media page has gradually become a community.
A family.
A movement.
And when people genuinely care about you, disappearing without explanation is not always fair.
So to everyone who sent emails...
To everyone who sent messages...
To everyone who was genuinely concerned...
Thank you.
I appreciate you more than you know.
I am very sorry.
And this experience reminded me of another lesson.
Many people are afraid of being alone with their thoughts.
That is why they stay permanently distracted.
Every free moment is filled with notifications.
Videos.
Messages.
Arguments.
Entertainment.
Noise.
Yet clarity rarely comes from noise.
It usually comes from silence.
The next level of your life may not require more activity.
It may require more reflection.
Because sometimes the biggest breakthroughs happen when nobody can reach you.
When the world thinks you disappeared.
But you are actually rebuilding.
And before I leave, let me share three quick updates.
First, I am fine.
Very fine.
Second, Pulseford Business School officially turns one year old this week. (And we are going to be announcing a big News, Anniversary Offer and Updates on that soon)
What started as an idea has grown into something that is already transforming lives, and I am grateful to everyone who has been part of the journey.
Third, I will be speaking about an important security initiative and conference being championed by Dr. Charles Awuzie and his team. At a time when many Nigerians are concerned about security, conversations like these deserve attention.
Finally, let me leave you with this.
Not every disappearance is a downfall.
Not every silence is failure.
Not every absence means something is wrong.
Sometimes people disappear because they are healing.
Sometimes they disappear because they are learning.
Sometimes they disappear because they are building.
And sometimes they disappear because they are preparing for the next chapter of their lives.
Thank you for waiting.
Thank you for caring.
And thank you for being part of this journey.
On this few days of my seclusion, I have actually learn and achieve more things that may take me 6 Months to achieve.
My name is Iking Ferry,
A Financial Literacy Advocate and Investment Strategist on a Mission to Build 10 Million Financially Free Nigerians and Africans Through Fokona with the Right Knowledge.