30/11/2022
*I WILL BE THERE FOR YOU*
Good day my friend,
Trust you are faring well?
As the days roll by and December 2022 is fast approaching, it's a good time to begin to put our lives in perspective
To start evaluating what has worked and not worked, friendships that have benefited us or otherwise, relationships that got us better or bitter.
Its time to decluster, to be real with ourselves
How many times have people told you they will be there for you?
Maybe your uncle, aunt, mentor, friend or sometimes even our parents but they just can't meet up
See, most of the time, it's not their fault, it's not that they lied, life just happens!
Sometimes things can get really hard
And it’ll look as though no matter what you do, you’re not making much progress
Worst still, it is as if no one cares
And you might feel ‘betrayed’ by those you call your friends because they could not help you
(especially if you have done something for them at some point)
But truth is
Whether you like it or not my friend,
No matter how good your friends are,
They can’t always help you
And even if they can,
There’s a limit to which they can continue with it
Because everyone has stuff they’re dealing with
Besides, it’s not even ideal to push your problems on others too much
So at the end of the day, you are still 100percent in charge of your life
And no one except you can change your life
Yes you read right
The earlier you know this the better
And of course, knowing this will help you take charge of your life
And do what you need to do to succeed
Rather than always waiting for other people to ‘help’ you
Expect more of this 🥂
