24/10/2021
Follow My Heart or Listen to My Parents — What Should I Do?
Have you ever asked your parents about following their heart or finding their passion?
I asked my parents, and here’s what they said:
“Passion? What passion? Life was very tough back then. All we did was study hard, then get a job that paid well. We worked a lot, sometimes overtime and that’s exactly what you should do instead of wasting your time writing stories.”
Does that sound familiar? Does that mean I should just do what they tell me, disregarding anything else that might seem interesting to me?
The brutally honest answer is, No.
Why You Should Follow Your Heart
Picture this. You keep doing what they tell you to do. Fast forward to the future, the day when eventually, they pass away.
Now what? Who’s going to tell you what to do?
No one.
Let me tell you what would happen when that unfortunate day comes. You’ll feel lost, directionless, disoriented. You wouldn’t know whether what you’re doing is the right thing to do.
You’ll doubt and question every decision you make, wishing your parents were here to tell you what to do. You’ll start transforming, changing, becoming a different person. And that’s when you truly transition from being a child to an adult.
Sounds scary, doesn’t it? Well, guess what? This day is going to come, whether you want it to or not.
One day, you have to grow up and transition from childhood to adulthood.
When that happens, do you know what you’ll have to do?
Accept responsibility for your life. Make your own decisions (some will be good, others will be bad) and accept the consequences of your decisions.
Since this day is bound to come, why wait for a series of life events to get there? Why not start today, right now?
Control your fate. Start making decisions that you think are the best ones for you. Start being responsible for your life and stop blaming your failures and misfortunes upon your parents.
Take responsibility today.