20/11/2025
tried to help my wife, but now I’m being seen as a terrible person. I love and appreciate her, but in our intimate life, things haven’t been working well. I tried to guide her and teach her, but nothing seemed to change.
Eventually, I made a huge mistake. I decided to bring in a professional to show her how things could be different. I even made an arrangement and paid the person. I brought her to our home and explained everything to my wife. She was shocked and started crying, begging me not to go through with it.
But because I had already paid, and because I wasn’t thinking clearly, I went ahead anyway. I asked my wife to watch so she could learn. I thought she was observing, but she was actually crying the whole time. I didn’t notice because I was focused on the other woman.
When everything was over and I escorted the professional out, I came back to find my wife packing her belongings. She left and told everyone what happened, and now everyone blames me. They ignore the fact that I did this because I was frustrated, but she says she will never come back. She feels deeply betrayed because I brought another woman into our home and into our marriage bed.
I only wanted to help her improve our intimate life, but I realize now how badly I handled everything. I’ve begged her to come back, but she refuses. I’m exhausted and don’t know what else to do to earn her forgiveness.
