25/10/2025
💎 Unveil With Tifeh - October Edition Highlights 💎
Q2: Managing Stress & Pressure (Career & Marriage)
🗣️ Mr. Osinuga's Take:
It's been good so far because "one person will chase one thousand, two persons shall chase ten thousand." Marriage is a partnership! We prioritize family time as a period of pleasure and leisure, especially before the children arrive.
🗣️ Dr. Mrs. B. A. Ajiboye's Take:
My ability to multitask is a major advantage, alongside Christ. I was determined to have a happy home, ensuring I don't lag in the home, church, or workplace.
🙏 Prayer is non-negotiable.
🚫 I don't procrastinate; I prioritize tasks.
📖 I "eat the word of God"—reading it for meaning, praying it into my life, and making plans based on it.
Q3: Did Career Ever Affect Marriage?
🗣️ Dr. Mrs. B. A. Ajiboye's Take:
To the glory of God, never at any point. I fixed every part (family, career, etc.) into its proper place like a puzzle. It was God's grace, but also good planning.
Balance doesn't work when you are lazy. This is especially true after children come.
Be an early riser! I do my university assignments after the children sleep (sometimes sleeping around 2 a.m.) but always wake up by 5 a.m.
📌 Pro Tip: If you're not an early riser, you'll struggle with managing priorities, working with people, and tolerating them. If you want an assignment done on time, give it to someone who is very busy!
Q4: Managing a Subordinate Spouse at Work
🗣️ Dr. Mrs. B. A. Ajiboye's Take:
It absolutely can work, but only if God is leading you.
Christ is Key: Your first priority must be your relationship with Christ. If you run after a relationship without knowing Christ, it will flop.
Respect Begets Respect: If you know Christ, external pressures (like colleagues gossiping) won't scatter your home, even if you are the female boss. Allow Christ, and everything will be easy.
Q5: Choosing a Partner: Role of Money/Status
🗣️ Dr. Mrs. B. A. Ajiboye's Take:
No! Money should not be the basis of respect in marriage.
Be sure God is leading you. Even if a person is "stinkingly rich," you won't be satisfied; there will be an empty space without Christ.
Money is needed, but if you get it right, your heart will be at peace knowing the money will eventually come.
My Testimony: I earn 20x my husband's salary, and you will never see me disrespect or disregard him. It is Christ at the center of it all that matters most.
Audience Questions
Q1: Partner Disagreement on Appearance (Haircut, Jewelry, Trousers, etc.)
Ans: Both partners must sit down and talk it over lovingly, without harsh argument.
The Goal: You must explain your conviction lovingly, and pray for your partner to love you the way you are.
The Solution: Be led of God. If you are, you and your partner will reach a good understanding (a good compromise) and live in peace.
Q2: i.) Forgetting to Read the Bible (due to busyness) & ii.) Overcoming Procrastination
Ans:
Bible Reading: You need to make up your mind to do the right thing. Tell God, "I must do your will," and tell Satan, "You cannot stop me!"
Procrastination: Pray by praying. You must literally cast out the spirit of procrastination. You prioritize managing money effectively, so why not spiritual things? This will empower your faith to do the right thing.
