11/12/2025
Last Episode ...Salt Between Two Rivers
Years passed like pages turning in a book no one realized they were reading.
The construction site was long completed.
Mama Mfon’s shop had expanded twice—more shelves, more customers, and eventually a small free-standing kiosk.
Mfon completed her NYSC, then started work at a private school as an administrator.
During those years, life moved both quietly and loudly.
She married first.
A youth pastor from her church—gentle, calm, deeply rooted in scripture.
A man who fit into the space her heart was willing to open.
Her family approved.
The marriage was simple and beautiful, filled with songs, prayers, and the quiet certainty that she had chosen someone within her world.
They built a peaceful home—nothing flashy, but steady like sunrise.
Children came.
Responsibilities came.
Yet peace remained.
She didn’t forget Izoduwa, but the memory became soft, like a chapter bookmarked but never reread
Izoduwa’s life went differently.
He too married—not long after she left the shop permanently.
A beautiful Edo woman chosen through family gatherings and subtle cultural matchmaking.
Their wedding was grand.
Coral beads.
Drums.
Ceremonial processions.
Everything expected of an Edo son.
For a while, they were happy.
They had two children, bought land, built a house.
But harmony is not always guaranteed by tradition.
Differences grew—tiny ones at first, then bigger, until the silence between them became a language of its own.
Arguments became frequent.
Accusations.
Resentment.
Ten years later, their marriage collapsed, quietly but conclusively.
He moved into a smaller apartment.
He focused on his work, on his children, on repairing the pieces of himself that had broken quietly over the years.
And in the quiet nights when he cooked in silence or scrolled through old photos, her memory—the Efik girl who once handed him cold water—returned like a whisper he didn’t ask for.
One evening, everything changed.
He was scrolling through Facebook, trying to mind his business, when he saw her.
A face from the past.
She looked the same, yet different.
Older, but gentler.
Her smile still carried that soft warmth he remembered from Mama’s shop.
Without thinking too much, he sent a friend request.
It took three days before she accepted.
When she did, his heart knocked against his ribs—not with romantic hope, but with the bittersweet shock of revisiting a road he once walked barefoot.
He messaged her.
> “Mfon… it has been a long time.”
She read it.
Didn’t reply immediately.
Hours later, she responded politely.
> “Yes. I hope you are well.”
The conversation was short, almost formal.
But he felt something crack open inside him.
They chatted occasionally—nothing inappropriate.
Work.
Children.
Life.
Just old acquaintances catching up.
Yet with every message he sent, he felt the pull of the past.
A pull he knew was dangerous.
A pull she knew was deadly.
One evening, he confessed something simple but heavy.
> “You were one of the purest people I ever met.”
Her heart tightened.
This was the kind of message a married woman had no business receiving.
She didn’t reply.
He waited.
The next morning, she sent a longer message—long enough that he knew she had thought deeply before writing it.
> “Izoduwa, we had something once… something pure, but something I had to walk away from.
I am married. Happily.
You are single again.
I don’t want our communication to become something that will make me fall where I once stood strong.”
He read the message three times.
Each sentence hit like truth wrapped in grace.
She continued:
> “I respect you.
I care about your wellbeing.
But I cannot keep talking to you like this. Not because of you—because of me.
I know my boundaries, and I won’t cross them. Please understand.”
Then she ended with:
> “I wish you peace, healing, and joy. But I must let go of this friendship before it becomes a temptation.”
After sending the message, she did something hard—
something discipline demanded,
something loyalty required,
something many people aren’t strong enough to do.
She blocked him.
Not out of hate.
Not out of pride.
But out of fierce self-control.
Izoduwa stared at the blank screen.
He felt the closure in his chest.
The finality.
And strangely… he respected her more in that moment than he ever had.
“She was always disciplined,” he murmured to himself.
“That’s the woman I knew.”
He leaned back, exhaled deeply, and let the years finally settle.
Life continued.
They never spoke again.
But sometimes, when rain fell heavily or when he saw a woman arranging goods in front of a shop, he remembered her.
Not with regret.
Not with longing.
But with gratitude for the small but honest chapter they once shared.
TO THE READERS — Let’s Talk
Do you think Mfon was right?
Was she justified to block him completely?
Should she have married Izoduwa back then?
Or would their cultural and spiritual differences have torn them apart later?
What do you think?
Your thoughts matter.
LESSONS FROM THE WHOLE STORY
Here are powerful takeaways woven into this series:
1. Attraction alone is never enough. Values, beliefs, lifestyle direction — these matter MORE than butterflies.
2. Cultural and religious differences can’t be swept under the carpet. Love is beautiful, but marriage is daily work. Shared foundations make the work lighter.
3. Boundaries protect blessings.
Mfon didn’t block him because she was harsh. She blocked him because she valued her home, her peace, and her covenant.
4. Not every good person is your person. Two good people can still be a bad match.
Compatibility is not the same as chemistry.
5. Some connections are lessons, not destinations. Their paths crossed for growth, not marriage.
6. Healing requires letting go.
Izoduwa didn’t stalk the past.
He respected her choice and rebuilt himself.
7. Godly discipline is not old-fashioned — it’s wisdom.
Many fall because they overestimate their strength.
Mfon stayed standing because she knew her limits.
THE END.