24/04/2020
S*X AS A PUNISHMENT TOOL : WHY ?
THIS write-up would have been censored considering the class of audience it is meant for, but knowing that everything on Social Media always go viral there's nothing one can do than to hope that since nothing incriminating is contained in it readers will have more than one lesson to pick.
I have personally discovered from close observation that S*x is one of the things most discussed on daily basis. Almost every App has a platform where issues bothering on s*x are being discussed. Pages, Blogs, and Groups are not left out. It has become so interesting that every Tom, Dick and Harry seems to be a s*xologist --- an expert in s*x matters. Funny enough, the raw usage of language by some of them betray their incompetence.
The intention of this piece is to address the ugly attitude of so many of us who use s*x as a tool to punish their partner. Be it amongst married couples, Singles dating for marriage or those having casual affair. Let me sound it clearly that I am not in any way advocating premarital s*x or supporting s*xual promiscuity. Not at all !
S*x, we should know, is a very spiritual engagement. S*x, as some people see it, is not just something pleasurable for the parties involved. It goes far deeper beyond the physical. For those who understand what S*x really is, the heart, the mind, the soul, and the body are all involved. And I tell you that there is no other condition in which these elements mentioned above are present than in a conjugal setting --- which is Marriage. It is therefore not in vain that The Holy Book said: "And the two shall become One". No marriage is seen to be wholesome until it is consummated in s*xual union.
It is baffling to see either of the couple using what should unite them as an instrument of punishment. Men are guilty of this. Women are also guilty of this. But from the survey conducted women are the more culprits -- at a ratio of 8 is to 2. And the cause is sheer ignorance and egoism...(Cont)
