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EFFECTIVE PARENTINGPhoto by Oleksandr Pidvalnyi: https://www.pexels.com/photo/blue-jeans-3036405/There are things I wish...
20/05/2023

EFFECTIVE PARENTING

Photo by Oleksandr Pidvalnyi: https://www.pexels.com/photo/blue-jeans-3036405/

There are things I wish I knew before becoming a parent. Most people like me get into parenthood only to discover it is more challenging than expected.

When I understood parenting as a noble call and started learning these secrets to effective parenting, what I considered a yoke, became a ride.

Here, I will share with you some tested strategies on how to attain effective parenting, irrespective of the circumstances surrounding your home.

WHAT IS EFFECTIVE PARENTING

Effective parenting is a result-oriented, model-engaging method of raising a child through the different stages of development to be an independent best version of themselves.

The deliberate and conscious method required to be effective in raising our kids demands that great results can not be achieved with haphazard and unsystematic procedures. This is not to say that every child must be raised in the same way; however, as much as we recognize the uniqueness of our individual uniqueness and family differences, some vital tools must be traceable in the parenting journey if we must end up proud of the job we did.

Defined as a model-engaging method, effective parenting emphasizes that we are dealing with human lives and not robots waiting for instructions. Children are more modeled by what they see and practise, than what they hear. Following this fact,, we must effectively and deliberately be the adult we want them top copy in actions.

It is no fault of ours that children grow and have their priorities reordered: From craving for free play time to having best looks in teens years. Effective parenting must be adaptable to these different stages of life and still remain consistent in her approach to ensure that the child turns out to be not what parents think children should become but what they were made to be; fully grown in all their potentials to impact positively on the society, whether we be present or not.

PRINCIPLES OF EFFECTIVE PARENTING

Effective Parenting is built around certain cardinal objectives.

Trust: It is essential to see our parent-child relationship as one that needs to be built on mutual trust. Here in this context; the trust from a child to a parent. Studies have it hat every child is born with a longing to be helped. This connection for help is first desired in the child’s desire to be assisted by his/her mom to food, for sleep, etc. This need is strongest in the earliest developmental stages of 0-2years and continues in different variants as the child grows. It gets to a point that this dependence is more for counsel, role modeling, and even world view. Every parent must strive to fill in this role effectively

Time: Time is the value of life and a currency to purchase any and everything. We can invest this resource and purchase character in and for our children. Spending time with them whether to play or study means spending our lives with them. This would strengthen our relationships and create room for influence. The walk to effective parenting is not overnight. We must learn to make out time for our children as anytime missed can not be regained.

Communication: The relevance of an open communication system with our children can not be over-emphasized. Communication must be done at the child’s level, not at the parent’s level. We need to bond with our kids well enough that they can tell all things. We must be able to read in-between lines and interpret unspoken words and body language. Having an appropriate feedback would give us access their true self and help them shape their destiny.

Responsibilities: Everyone must have a role to which he/she is committed. Responsibility not only gives a sense of belonging, but helps to balance development. It is not advisable to let the child while a way his/her time. Committing tasks at par with age prepares children to expect responsibilities at adulthood. It gives room for critical analysis and teaches on problem solving skills.

Boundaries: Boundary setting is essential to put a child to check. Every child is born with an innate desire to be naughty. If left untamed, the results would be far from desired and detrimental to society. There should be a check on everything a child is permitted to do; from play to entertainment, etc.There is need to be diplomatic in setting boundaries and it should be done in such a way that the child does not see it as a limitation but can rather adapt it as a personal guide.
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MYTHS ABOUT EFFECTIVE PARENTING

It is the practice of raising a little version of you: This is fallacy as no two individuals are the same; not even a father and son in all their socio-psychological makeup. Striving to raise another you in your child is limiting the true potentials of another individual.

It is the process of becoming a perfect parent: it is not a cliche; No one is perfect and neither can you be. In becoming a parent, you will make mistakes and you will learn from them. This process will make you effective in parenting.

CHALLENGES TO EFFECTIVE PARENTING

Method disparity among spouses:
Both parents of the same child have been raised from different backgrounds. Some parentis are permissive, some authoritarian and some a mixture of both in their method of discipline. There must be an agreement of the parenting method to be deployed, and spouses can not be in process competition but complementary, if parenting must be effective on a child.

Peer Pressure:
Man is a social creature and as the child grows, there must be an interaction of value systems with members of another home. If the principles of his home are well internalized and accepted, then he/she will over rule the identity crises that comes with peer pressure.

CONCLUSION

Effective parenting is a deliberate and conscious effort to raise our children into the very best version of the themselves.

There are keys to achieving this intent successfully in our everyday parenting dairy.
The challenges to this goal is surmountable and it pays off when we work at it.

We would love to hear from you on where you have missed it out in the past or your experiences in putting these procedures in place to become a better parent.

OVERCOMIN THE EFFECTS OF DIVORCE ON YOUNGSTERSWhen those divorce papers are signed and handed over to you, it is easy to...
14/05/2023

OVERCOMIN THE EFFECTS OF DIVORCE ON YOUNGSTERS

When those divorce papers are signed and handed over to you, it is easy to assume as a parent, that with the help pf your lawyer, the court that given you a certificate of freedom from the love that never worked right and your new life begins now. However, the changes that may occur especially in the life of your youngstar may be a bewilderment they were never prepared to handle.

Although divorces or disintegration of marriages occur after all options to save the union has been exhausted, broken families are arguably one of the major causes of dysfunctional youths and societal imbalance today.

WHAT IS DIVORCE

We know that it is the legal disintegration of a conjugal relationship. This process is authenticated by court and managed by lawyers. Lots of sharing come into play for the properties as well as the level and limits of authority over the the kids with the aim of protecting a client’s interest.
Beyond this court process is the severing of one flesh, twined hearts, one purpose and a distortion of generational sequence. Although it is no fault of theirs, no one bears the consequences of a divorce as much as the youngstar from the union.

TYPES
Although there may be various processes in which parents may chose to go their separate ways, there dominates 3 major types of known divorces.

Uncontested Divorce
This happens when the both parties are in agreement to the divorce terms probably because of distance or unavailability to go through the rigors of all court processes.

Contested Divorce
The terms of the divorce is usually resolved by the judge because there are maybe one or more malarial issues among the spouses for which lawyers take sides.

Collaborative Law
The collaborative divorce involves the use of divorce lawyers but not within the restrictions of the court room. Both parties opt to settle their differences assisted

CAUSES OF DIVORCE
Infidelity:
In some societies, adultery may not directly be the cause of signing divorce papers, but to a large extent, extra marital affairs by any of the spouses usually lead to a break in trust, attitudinal changes, low esteem/rejection which may if not properly handled lead to a fall out in the marriage relationship.

Incompatibility:
When Justin and Ivy fell in love, they saw a perfect world in each others eyes, with Justin taking her to places she only knew in her dreams. 36 months have now gone by and Ivy considers that Justin’s unavailability contrasts with her desire to build a peaceful home and so seeks an annulment which we are still working against. Too often, the point if attraction becomes the bone of contention when mis-managed.

Addictions:
Half of the complains moms bring to our monthly breakfast table has to do with chronic habits from their spouses. It is no wonder that these complaints sometimes become a huge cause of worry to wives and moms especially due to the re-per cautionary effect it has on the home. Some of these may include, drinking, drug intake, ma********on and all the likes. It resulted to worlds apart between Sandy and Gerald till they found themselves finalizing their divorce process.

Unresolved Misunderstandings:
Misunderstanding are part of every day relationship. Some parents however are in the habit of sweeping these misunderstandings under the table rather that have open minded dialogue to communicate properly. If this happens over a long time, there might be a build up of misconceptions that may be hard to clarify as the root cause has now been jumbled. It is very possible that sever misunderstandings may fill up the gaps that could lead to dissolution of marriages.

EFFECTS OF DIVOCE ON YOUNGSTARS

There are lots of extended phase consequences of divorce on youngsters and this differs from situation to situation, If such extended phase consequences of divorce on youngstar is not recognized in time they could lead to permanent damage in the mind of the individual and cause an abnormal behaviour.

The result of extensive phrase outcomes of divorce on youngstars is all around us. Although I was not raised in a broken home, Sam was and the work of recovery is still ongoing. Most of the diagnosis was not even early enough. I have also seen friends conclude that their marriage was beyond repair and they had to rake a bow.
Some of the major effects of divorce on kids include the followings;

Spiritual Disconnection
One of the effects of divorce is that youngstars are more likely to abandon their faith as they draw a conclusion from the termination of a lifelong commitment which contrasts to the taught believe systems which has displayed by their parents. It is no wonder that children from step homes are generally less religious.

Clinical Brokenness
Children from divorced homes receive less attention emotionally and financially. This lack of affection and scarceness of resources results in a form of detachment referred to as clinical brokenness which sometimes leads to physical punishment. It could occur between the child and mother or the child and father or a sibling.

Social Effects
There is usually a challenge in children’s competence to manage future relationships, conflicts or even their own marriages. It is noticeable that they may become more vulnerable to various illicit sexual behaviors as they tend to develop a sense of insecurity in their social capacities

Psychological, effects
The poor emotional development of a divorced child-victim may weaken the psychological and behavioral stability of the youngstar leading to depression, resentment, confusion, isolation, jealousy, low self esteem and loneliness which may at the long run cause him/her prone to some societal vices and crimes

Education:
There could be diminished learning capacities, lack of concentration, absenteeism in school, truancy etc that may lead to a child dropping out of school or be suspended.

HOW TO OVERCOME THE EFFECTS OF A PARENTAL DIVORCE

When there begins to appear prolonged consequence of divorce in little ones, which become noticeable to those around, it may be time to introduce them to counseling, It could also be helpful if the youngsters are encouraged to open up and discuss their problems with other family members as well as guidance counselors. Books may be available to provide some level of assistance to victims of parental divorce.

Other methods that a young star could apply to manage these resultant effects of divorce in his/her life includes;
Genuinely forgive all the parties (parents) that may have caused the hurt.
Make excuses for people’s action and accept them despite their flaws.
Learn to accept and live with the conditions the divorce may have forced on you.
Cut down on your privileges/expectations and financial budget from what it was.
Rather than meddle in your parents affairs and take sides, learn from it.
Join a community and form healthy relationships with both sexes.
Be deliberate about your personal transformation to avoid pattern recycle.

CONCLUSION.

Marriage disintegration may be the only option parents think they have to save their sanity, it is avoidable and usually is not the best option for the children due to it’s long term riper-cautionary effects.

Youngstars who are victims from divorced homes however, have a choice to live free.

RESOURCES

Amna Hameed, July 14, 2018
https://ezinearticles.com/?What-Is-Divorce?-Reasons-Of-DIVORCE_-Why-Couples-Get-Divorced?&id=9976198

Jessica Tanady, July 30, 2010
https://ezinearticles.com/?A-Divorce-May-Cause-Long-Term-Effects-on-youngstar&id=4773433

The Effects of Divorce on youngstar by Patrick F. Fagan and Aaron Churchill published January 11 | 2012 by Marrie Research

International Journal of Applied research | Broken family: Its causes and effects on the development of youngstar

TEACH THEM TO SHOW LOVE INSTEAD OF FILGHTI am still in search of the set of siblings who grew up without a fair doze of ...
07/05/2023

TEACH THEM TO SHOW LOVE INSTEAD OF FILGHT

I am still in search of the set of siblings who grew up without a fair doze of misunderstandings. I personally thought I had escaped the need to understand sibling rivalry and that conflict resolution among my kids may be a task for the later years, but when I saw it play out between the 2 and 5 years old boys at home, I knew it was not far from my recurrent reality.

Conflict is part of our everyday lives. When it emanates from kids whether at home or in school it can be both psychologically exhausting to the children and very disturbing to parents or teachers. Amazingly, any approach cultivated for conflict resolution during childhood is usually extended to adulthood, positive or negative.

While teaching in school, I could conclusively perceive the children who had been thought the skills of conflict resolution. These were the kids who knew how to avert impending harm from bullies because they knew when to speak or when not to, and how to diffuse issues before it became over heated.

Being effective in our management of sibling rivalry requires that conflicts can be resolved without overbearing ones opinion or wishes on others; but in a way that fosters mutual respect and resolve or solutions. It is essential for parents to provide useful tools with which children can resolve their misunderstandings effectively.

Arguably, conflict resolution comes to me as one of the most important and most challenging skills to imbibe among siblings as they grow up with each other.
This is because, it is a skill learned more by watching others do than it is by listening. Parents must teach this lesson themselves by first understanding and practicing effective conflict resolution in their marriages and other interpersonal relationships.

MAJOR CAUSES OF SIBLING RIVALRY

Competition may be good enough to play out in the office or business sector, but at home, it yields the opposite results. Setting up children against the standards maintained by their siblings usually bring about an unhealthy balance. If you as a parents through praises, sow in the heart of one kid, that results achieved by another sibling is most acceptable, there is a contention spurred in their heart that makes them consider an alternate field where they may excel to gain your approval.

Rivalry among kids at home may be caused by anyone or more of the followings.
Attention diversion
Frustrations and stress
Preferential treatments
Individual temperaments
Lack of outdoor activities
Predominant parenting styles
Parental conflict mismanagement
Ages and developmental stages of kids

5 BASIC STEPS TO CONFLICT RESOLUTION AMONG CHILDREN

Mastering any aspect of the conflict resolution wheel could be helpful in managing sibling rivalry and resolving conflicts among kids at home.

However, here are highly recommended procedures that parents could teach to help their children to ensure that sibling rivalry does not escalate into adulthood or become a poor disposition in an individuals social skills during his teen or adult years.

STOP: It is important we teach children how to say stop to peers if there is an unpleasant confrontation and know when to stop themselves in the face of disagreements. Rather than yell or throw tantrums to establish their opinions, they can halt whatever their feelings are running wild into. They need to be taught that emphasis is not in the height of voice pitch or restlessness displayed. The aim of arguments is to attain a middle ground, but kids are from from getting this themselves so the least they can do is to speak for themselves and say, STOP.

BE SAFE: There is no point to the argument if it brings harm. If your kids fail to manage rivalry at this stage, it is okay if you intervene. Teach them to be bold enough to walk away from the fight and that to be afraid is not a sign of weakness. If this is properly learned, they would understand that all battles need not to be won if it may endanger your life or put you in harms way. Please use the other room here.

BE CALM: There must be that time to relax the nerves. It might be a few second to take deep breaths, cry, listen to music or cuddle. Your kids need to learn that sibling rivalry can not be mended with accusations or pointing fingers. They may need time to regain control of their feelings and action if they are upset; to separate their feelings from the bone of contention, and that their judgement would be better tuned when calm.

THINK AGAIN: Studies on the brain show that during provocations of anger, the amygdala (the emotion controlling part of the brain) becomes heated up and restricts the functionality of the pre-frontal cortex (the decision making domain in the brain). This makes people to react instead of respond to situations. It is important that children learn to identify the source of conflict and have second thoughts before their actions

TALK: Now that the tension has been eradicated, your kids can talk with each other to express their feelings. It is usually advisable that they dialogue using the I-statements to draw attention to how they feel rather than playing the blame game.

Siblings need to tell each other these things;
What they don’t like,
Say how it makes your feel
Explain how you would rather be treated
Know what to expect from the other person

REPAIR: this is the last stage to mend the walls. Apologies are suitable. Moms need to tell each sibling what they did wrong. A reorientation of the family standards must take place. If there are post cards of virtues you need the children to imbibe, this is the right time to flash it again.

CONCLUSION

Sibling rivalry is common in today’s families. Parent must learn to teach children how to resolve conflicts without pain.

To resolve these misunderstandings, kids must learn to deploy pointers in the resolution whee. The need to learn to Stop, Be safe, Be calm, Think again, Talk and Repair broken friendships at home.

RESOURCES

Chelsea Lee: http://www.momentsaday.com/strategies-to-teach-conflict-resolution/

Michael Grose: https://ezinearticles.com/?Teach-Your-Children-How-To-Resolve-Conflict-Without-Using-Anger-Or-Power&id=9079

Psychological Effects of Mom’s Full Time Job on Infant CareWorking as a mom can be very impressive; as it provides women...
30/04/2023

Psychological Effects of Mom’s Full Time Job on Infant Care

Working as a mom can be very impressive; as it provides women with a platform for self expression and an opportunity to contribute to the needs of the home. With proper assistance, career moms can combine the responsibilities of raising children with their professional obligations, but not so for everyone.
Some may find a struggle to achieve this balance, which has some consequences on their personal lives with possible adverse effects on the care of infants, especially when working in a full time capacity.
If you or any of your loves ones fall in this category, It is important to understand what these pressures mean for the long term health of your infant and how you can support babies through these difficult times.
The Psychological Strain of Full-Time Employment
I took up a new job when I was 4 months gone for Edmund. I was always given the light task at work during pregnancy. When I put to bed, I had a subconscious urge to work twice as expected. Coping with breastfeeding demands, I had to express milk from 3 months rather than let him suckle next to my skin.
Inspite of the wonderful care givers, I couldn’t shake off the feeling that baby wasn’t having enough of me as per attention, especially when he was weaned earlier than Jason. Obviously, this was one of the reasons that led to my decision to work from home. While you may feel stronger than I was and more able to cope with these challenges, you need to know whats best for baby and you.
Working more than 40 hours a week can be incredibly stressful. It often places a significant amount of pressure on those involved, and can lead to a higher level of mental exhaustion if not properly managed.
This type of stress may negatively affect the quality of care parents provide for their infants. It may also make you more prone to making mistakes that could put your child in harm’s way.
The importance of early care for infants
Newborn infants face a host of unique health challenges. Many of these can be mitigated by early and consistent care from their parents. The earlier we can help parents begin to develop positive and healthy care-giving routines for their infants, the better off these kids will be later in life.
Children-friendly work policies that allow moms bring their kids along could help ease the psychological strain of working full time while raising a child. As this may not always be available, near-to-work childcare facilities, online infant care programs, or in-home child care provided by a trained caregivers are options available. Whichever option you choose, it’s important to ensure that your infant is receiving the right amount of care each day.
The Effects of Depression on Infants
Depression in full time working moms may lead to depression in their infant. Early care for infants can help mitigate the symptoms of infant depression – but only if it is accompanied by treatment for the parent. Working moms who are experiencing depression may have trouble providing consistent and proper care for their infant. They may struggle to provide the kind of consistent and nurturing parenting that is necessary for their child’s development. If you suspect that your partner has been struggling with depression, try to encourage them to seek treatment. A parent who is depressed may unintentionally neglect or abuse their infant because they can’t properly care for them. This can lead to long-term psychological damage that may last a lifetime. Equally important, infants who are neglected or abused are significantly more likely to develop long-term health issues than infants who receive proper care.
Working Moms May Struggle with Time Management
Working moms may struggle to find a balance between their two roles. This may lead them to prioritize one role over the other under most circumstances. Working parents are often forced to make difficult decisions about how they choose to divide their time between work and home. Some may feel compelled to work longer hours to compensate for the financial strain that comes with raising a child. Others may try to “catch up” on household chores or child care that was not completed during the normal working hours.
Academic Advising and Counseling Programs for Working Moms
Some medical and academic institutions recognize that full-time employment can present unique challenges for working parents. They have created guidance and counseling programs to help working parents navigate their way through the challenges that come with raising a child while maintaining a demanding career. These programs offer support and guidance for working parents who are struggling to find the right balance between their two roles. Working parents can benefit from the guidance provided by these programs.
They can help parents to identify and eliminate potential time management issues. They can help reduce the likelihood that one role will be prioritized over another. This is particularly important when it comes to infant care. Academic advising and counseling programs can help to create a balance of priority by offering assistance. Taking advantage of the closest one to ou is not a sign of weakness but an acknowledgement of the inner strength you wish to explore.
ADHD in Infants Due to Working Moms
The symptoms of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) may be less pronounced in older children and adults. But infants are often unable to properly communicate when they are feeling overwhelmed. This can lead to parents struggling to properly care for their infant due to the symptoms of ADHD. Working moms who are struggling with ADHD may be more likely to neglect or abuse their infant. Working parents who are experiencing the symptoms of ADHD may need the assistance of a parent-child instructor in learning how to properly care for their infant and you may also want to consider involving your infant’s other parent in the infant’s care as often as possible.
Conclusion
The responsibility of caring for a child while also maintaining a demanding career is challenging and working mothers may find that it has undue consequences on their personal lives and their professional performance.
Working parents who are struggling to meet both roles may benefit from the assistance provided by medical and academic counseling programs.
They can help parents to identify and eliminate potential time management issues and reduce the likelihood that one role will be prioritized over another.

Providing appropriate childcare in an environment that is safe, caring and supportive is priority.
If a child is raised in a home that is a safe haven for both parents and children, the environment will allow parents to work fully while remaining connected with one another. It ensures that children are not isolated from other people at home while they are growing up

MITIGATING THE TRAUMATICE EFFECTS OF CHILD ABUSEINTRODUCTIONThe WHO statistics show that over 70% of child abuse cases r...
23/04/2023

MITIGATING THE TRAUMATICE EFFECTS OF CHILD ABUSE

INTRODUCTION

The WHO statistics show that over 70% of child abuse cases remain um-diagnosed.

Our character is a product of nature and nurture and to a large extent, these factors are determined by the persons around a child through his/her developmental stages.

The reality of this abuse, its effect on the individual, family, society and how best it can be treated is here illustrated.

WHAT IS CHILD ABUSE

Child abuse is a deliberate alteration of a child’s physiological balance in a way that causes harms or pain.

This could be caused by toxic parents, caregivers, relatives or otherwise exposures.
The term Toxic parents refers to parental behaviors that are not in the in child’s best interest but is rather laden with self satisfaction or gratification of immediate feelings

There is a manipulation of the child’s feelings or well-being for parental gain only. Child abuse through toxic parenting can go a long way into adulthood and cause a ripple effect on the individual behavior.

Photo Credit: Mikhail Nilov

TYPES OF CHILD ABUSE

Physical Abuse: This abuse has to do with any variant that hurts the body. It is done with materials that can result in bruises, fractures, burns, etc. Some times it is inflicted with an intention to enforce discipline.
Sexual Abuse: Sexual abuse is the exposure of an under 18 to infantile or juvenile indecent sexual activities such as fondling, r**e, stimulation, or direct sexual involvements. It is promoting sexual knowledge which is not in concordance with age. Although, women remain most likely the victims, it is suffered by both sexes.

Emotional Abuse: Abuse is be emotional when required affection is denied off a child. It could be caused by negative criticisms and comparisons, shouting and verbal abuse. This usually results in low self esteem, isolation, depression etc. This abuse is a popular tool in toxic parenting.

Neglect; This is the most common and hard to diagnose kind of abuse. It is usually not intentional. It comes as a result of a parent or guardians unavailability, probably due to circumstances beyond their control, such as stress, sickness or jobs. They hardly even have time to recognize the child’s need for attention and affection.

Financial Abuse: This kind of abuse exerts stern control of economic resources that denies a child of his/her needs. It promotes the scarcity mentality and restricts freedom in many ways. Financial abuse is some times misconstrued to be a form of discipline. Research shows that occurs in 1 out of 3 homes.

EFFECTS OF CHILD ABUSE
Child abuse can impede not only the child’s psychological balance, but also on the society in general. Some of the known effects of child abuse include the followings;
Depression
Lack of self control
Low self esteem
learning difficulty
Poor attention and memory span
Anxiety,
Social withdrawal
Alcoholism
Moos swings
Sexual promiscuity
Stealing
Bully/aggressiveness
Mental Disorder
Trust issues
Fear of abandonment
Relationship issues
Re-victimization
Developmental delay
Trauma
Terminal diseases‌
Child abuse can be diagnosed by the presence of one or more of the above effects. Early identification of unusual traits such as social isolation, absenteeism from school or physical hurts, soliloquy, are indicating factors that must be investigated..
Adult survivors however are skilled in camouflage operations especially when they are conscious of a specific childhood abuse and its adverse effects on them. This is one of the major causes of toxic parenting in the society. Toxic parents may become overbearing and over protective of the child, keeping them from relating with help.
THE ROLE OF PARENTS IN PREVENTING CHILD ABUSE.
Role Modelling; The place of being a good example to your children can not be over emphasized. Setting bad examples is an unconscious way of exposing the child to harmful practices. Children learn more by copying their environment.
Provide Emotional Support: One of the major roles of parents is to provide children with encouragement to actualize their potentials. When parents stir up confidence in a child, there is reduced risk of negative emotional feelings like depression.
Self Control: Parents who have gained mastery of their self are more potent in keeping their words and actions under check. They are skillful, not only in identifying harmful signs of abuse, but also in understanding the right time and manner to enforce discipline.
Provide Sexual Education: Teaching a child about their sexuality and how to be protective of it, can help to arm the child on ways to detect impending abuse and how to flee from them.
TREATING ADULT SURVIVORS OF CHILD ABUSE
There are yet adult survivors of abuse with no knowledge that behavioral issues are as a result of some untreated childhood cases of abuse.There are a some vital approaches and therapy for adults who are survivors of child abuse
Although there are medications that aid to manage feelings of depression and anxiety, drugs alone do not change behavioral patterns that are a result of pain inflicted during childhood.
Psychotherapy it is crucial to to diagnose these patterns and to help the individual through an un-learning and re-learning season of new behavioral patterns.This could be done by two known methods
Psycho-dynamic Therapy: Here, an analysis of emotional behaviour and subconscious patterns are investigated to foundation influencing factors to help the individuals become more self-aware.
Cognitive-behavioral Therapy. This makes use of thought patterns to shape the individual behaviour and achieve the desired results.:
CONCLUSION:
Child abuse is a fall out from Toxic Parents with highly adverse behavioral risks and consequences on the individual.
There are various types of child abuse among which are; sexual, physical, emotional or even neglect.
Abuse can be carried into adulthood if not well managed but effective parenting has a great role to play. Abuse is preventable and curable.

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