14/02/2026
GIVE THIS A 1-MINUTE READ.
My grandmother had three daughters. One of them is the wife of a wada adakshye from Congress. Her husband is close to some powerful political figures from the Nepali Congress. And that’s why she is labelled “janey bujeko” among the relatives.
Her daughter (my sister) has just started a sarkari jagir, and within one month she was transferred from durgam to sugam due to the powerful reach of her father, and someone who actually deserves that place got replaced.
Her other daughter got some kind of wild card entry into the education sector because of that same reach.
Today, I heard her calling my grandmother and saying, “Vote ta Rukh mai halnu parcha hai, yetro barsha haaleko, afno party choodnu hunna.”
And my grandmother got convinced: “Janeko bujeko chhori le vaneko cha, vote ta rukh mai halnu parcha.”
It got me thinking: this is the reality. Most of us are so naive, our brain is so delicate.
People trying to convince us, trying to ask us for vote, are those who are actually being benefitted by current condition, from the unaccountability, from the system where they get opportunities to step foot on the deserves one. Where they get opportunities to exploit and gain with the support from their political reach.
Why would they want change, when they are already benefiting from this?
So, if someone tries to convince you for something, think: Who is talking to you? Why are they talking to you? Because most of the time, people are trying to shape your narrative for their own benefit.
Question that moment: “Are they getting benefited by what they are trying to convince me of?”
If YES, then you have to be alert. You are being manipulated for their own benefit.
Therefore, try to make your own decision.
Because tapai ko nirnaye matters