14/02/2026
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How can something so wrong feel so right all along? Well, because the world has learned to redefine love according to its own desires.
Every February, hearts, flowers, and chocolates flood the worldโs celebration of the 14th day of this month. Love is almost everywhere โโ on social media screens, radio waves, movie screens, and even TV commercials and shows! But despite all the attention and effort that the world gives to this day, the image of love displayed is often flawed and marred with self-centered desires.
More unfortunately, many people equate love with fleeting emotions, romantic excitement, or self-gratifying pleasure. It is painted as something that must feel good, must make us happy, or at least satisfy one of our many cravingsโฆfleshly cravings at most.
Yet, this perception is far from the love that truly matters. All these displays are far removed from the love Christ demonstrated.
๐๐ผ๐๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ช๐ผ๐ฟ๐น๐ฑ ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ ๐๐
The world largely teaches that love is primarily about what one receives. Many people base their idea of love and happiness on the quantity or grandeur of the gifts or greetings received. Yet, many times, this kind of love is often conditional. If someone stops making you happy, if your expectations arenโt met, if your loved ones fail to make you feel important, or if the thrill fades, then love quickly disappears out of the window.
Such love is rooted in convenience and personal benefit rather than sacrifice and commitment.
๐๐ต๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐โ๐ ๐ง๐ฅ๐จ๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฒ: ๐ฆ๐ฒ๐น๐ณ๐น๐ฒ๐๐, ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ฎ๐น, ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ณ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด
In contrast, the love of Christ is radical and counter-cultural. It is not dependent on feelings or convenience; it is a deliberate choice rooted in obedience and grace. Jesus said, โGreater love has no one than this: to lay down oneโs life for oneโs friendsโ (John 15:13). His love is selfless for He came not to be served, but to serve (Mark 10:45), even dying for the sins of His people while they were still His enemies (Romans 5:8).
Christโs love is enduring. It forgives, protects, bears all things, and never fails (1 Corinthians 13:4โ8). Unlike the worldโs love that fades when conditions change, His love remains constant, shaping and transforming hearts by grace through faith all for the glory of the ever-holy God.
His gift of freedom and salvation is incomparable even to the most expensive valentine gift ever given by any sin-marred individual.
To further illustrate this claim, when two people separate because of minor disagreements or unmet expectations โ then their version of love is measured by convenience. Many people seek love for relationship for status, wealth augmentation, fame upsurge, beauty confirmation, or even lustful satisfactions.
But Christโs version of love is hugely unrecognizable to an average attention-seeking member of this present social media generation.
While people may express love and then separate over minor disagreements or unmet personal gain and expectations, Christโs love is unconditional and even available for the unworthy, the broken, and the undeserving.
Thankfully, His love is not based on what He receives but on what He already gave.
This kind of love is not only selfless but also 'self-lessing'. A kind of love that intentionally lowers oneโs view of self for the good of another. It calls for a surrender of personal rights, desires, and pride. True love does not elevate the self; it denies the self. This reflects the call of Christ when He said, โIf anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow meโ (Matthew 16:24). Biblical love therefore involves self-denial, a willingness to put Godโs will and the good of others above personal comfort or gain.
Christ Himself perfectly demonstrated this self-lessing love. Though He is Lord of all, He humbled Himself, taking the form of a servant and becoming obedient even to death on a cross (Philippians 2:5โ8). His love was expressed through voluntary humility and sacrifice. In the same way, believers are called to crucify the self-centered nature and live for Christ (Galatians 2:20), pursuing a love that seeks not its own interests but the good of others.
Thus, true love does not merely give. It dies to self. It chooses humility over pride, sacrifice over comfort, and obedience over self-preservation. This is the essence of Christlike love: not the exaltation of self, but the willing surrender of self for the glory of God and the good of others.
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This Valentineโs Day, let us pause and reflect. Before giving flowers, chocolates, or cards, we should seek to understand and embrace the love of Christ first. That kind of love that is the perfect embodiment of true love. For without it, any expression of love, no matter how sincere or beautiful, risks being just another form of vanity (Ecclesiastes 1:2). Only when we love as Christ loves can our love be genuine, life-giving, and lasting.
Let this season not merely be about fleeting emotions or societal tradition, but about the eternal love that transforms hearts. Look to Christ. Learn His love. Live His love. His biblical version of love that is. And in doing so, every act of love will have meaning beyond the temporary and the superficial.
Only then that all love story will be for His glory.
๐๐จ -D3X for Christ the Restorer Community Church - Borongan GloryLens Creatives
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