21/09/2026
It was my birthday yesterday, and unlike other birthdays, i always celebrate away from home(in cebu).
Always had holidays, birthdays and other occassions, with friends, and also with those people na geturing na jud namu as a true family beacuse sa kadugay nagkaila and nagkuyog., sa kasakit ug kalipay char haha 😊😅 wla lang, besan unsaon muabot man pod ang times makadomdom tah ug makamiss pod usahay amua mga bonding moments.🥲
But this time hits different, i think byernes pa lang sept. 18 nagpalit na si papa 4 ka buok chicken(kals) and saging dung.agon, nag engon pa sya ni mama na ayaw ni dung.aga ha kay sa domingo na birhday dw naku, ako wla ra ko nag expect mupalit sya,
And also wla ra man ko naghuna huna kaayo sa akong birthday kay naa ra man me dri pwede ra dli na magluto, kay sa birthday nlang ni yohan puhon para wla na kaayo iba gastuhan.
I know naa man jud tatay na dli perfect, dli tanan maka provide, besan pa man unsaon natu pag pasabot nga naa tah mga needs, and wants as a child, especially those times na kmi tanan egsuon nag eskwela pa, naa highschool, naa college, naa elementary halos kami tanan nagdungan ug eskwela, and tanan gastuhanan kay dungan pod.
Although naa man c mama work sa una pero dli man jud enough para namu tanan kay 6 me kabuok egsuon., and sometimes naa pod kinaiya c papa na dli masabtan, but i always know that because he also has a broken fam, his parents broke up when he was a kid, eventhough naa man sya lola nag atiman nya pero lahi ra geapon kung naa jud eyang mama siguro.
Until now kung unsa naandan nya, maona jud na siguro hangtod matiguwang na sya.
Mao tu gahapon nakahilak ko kay, while nagkanta c sonnyboy ug tatay na song ako sya ge ask, unsa man mas prefer nimu naa ka papa na eng ani kay papa or wla na lang? Nakahilak ko sa eyang tubag "kay uo, kaysa wla" very short answer, pero sakit kaayo ug imong sabton maayo, kay since gamay pa sya namatay na eyang papa and ge adopt lang sya sa bana sa eyang eyaan, nagdako sya wla eyang papa and thankful pod kaayo sya kay naa eyang 'anhing nonong' nag guide nya sadly namatay pod i think after pandemic kalimot ko sa unsa jud na year.
Nibalik eyang ge agian kay nawala napod ang eka duhang papa unta nya, grabe kalisod dw as a child kung wla papa and a situation na always nimu makita, na ang uban bata kay complete family, until now di man geapon sya makalimot, what if wla dw namatay eyang papa siguro di pod sila maglisod unta.🥹
Maong naka realize ko ba, btaw mas lisod siguro kung wla jud papa noh, or depende geapon sa situation? Syempre lahi lahi man tah story to tell dba?
By the way thanks diay sa akong maguwang wa pod ko nag expect nipalit sya cake, Pero ok ra man te wla na oi, haha thanks kaayo, sa tanan. More blessings nimu and ni kuya entong.
