22/05/2023
Set clear boundaries.
Regardless of where you are in your career at the moment, it's crucial to know when enough is enough.
Have you been dealing with psychological and emotional abuse from your superiors and colleagues? 😥
Are you getting paid fairly for the amount of work and effort that you've regularly been putting out? 👌
Do you feel heard and respected—or are you constantly trying to keep your lips sealed because constructive, negative feedback is not well-received at work? 😕
I know it may just sound like such advice is coming from a place of privilege—and at some degree, I acknowledge that it can be.
It's not easy to let go of a source of income—of what's been putting food on the table.
However, I am asking that you remember that our lives are short and fleeting.
And that what we're anxious about—the unknown consequences of us leaving our current abusive and toxic workplace—may not be so bad.
I used to be afraid of not having everything planned out, of not fully knowing where I should step into next. At times, I still am.
But I guess I've been learning to be braver each time...
Because I'm learning to value myself (my peace and health) better.
I acknowledge that it isn't easy to leave the place you've been working at for so long... so you choose to be ever resilient no matter what.
However, even plants need to be replanted, repotted at times for them to grow better—bigger... happier.
If you're not blossoming where you are, maybe you're not in the right place.
Perhaps you're a lily waiting to bloom in still waters.
Or a vine in need of more space to spread onto.
Or a sycamore tree needing to reach the skies.
I'm not a big fan of signs, really, but if you want to consider this post as a sign for you to leave your current position and choose (or create) a better path for yourself...
Feel free to define it as that: a sign to leave.
I hope you give yourself the chance to explore your potential and see where else you can possibly land.
It's a big world and the possibilities are just overwhelming.
Overwhelmingly encouraging for you, I hope.
May the coming days be kinder to you, dear reader.
And may you be kinder to yourself. 😊
📷 by Oliver Sjöström: https://www.pexels.com/photo/man-holding-black-backpack-1223649/