07/20/2026
Last Wednesday, someone walked into End the Day Come Play not knowing a single person in the room.
Two of us were already there. I was working on a puzzle and someone else had a word search going. I introduced myself and invited her to play with whatever was on the table, or help with the puzzle, or if she wanted (I saw her eyes light up at the Uno deck) we could play a round. Or, I said, "you could just hang out."
She laughed. "Ok. I'm noticing the theme of 'do nothing.'"
I replied, "more like, ‘do whatever you'd like.’"
She settled on the clay kit and we all got back to what we were doing and let her ease in on her own time. No one asked forced questions, like "so tell us about yourself." Just space to settle.
Somewhere in there, we learned she'd come down from Cleveland. That she's a musician, working on her next album, and stuck. She didn't have to explain more than that. Nobody pushed. Turns out the other attendee is a musician too, and the conversation just kind of found its way there. They started talking about what they listen to, how they make music, their process, and what usually gets in the way.
I talked about my own work, and what I do in my free time to stay balanced. By the end of the night, she said, "Man. I need to talk to you for sure. As soon as I get my s**t together, I'm calling you."
I told her she doesn't need to have it figured out first. That's what we'd do together.
The next day I followed up. Thanked her for coming, told her it was a genuine pleasure, sent a couple of free resources that might help with the album. She wrote back with a warm introduction to resources in Cleveland who could help me, too.
That's the whole thing, really. We share space, our humor, our frustrations, our roadblocks and our mutual solutions so everyone wins.
End the Day Come Play runs every Wednesday. Just come play. There’s a link in the bio for dates and times.