12/02/2023
Just when you think you have it all figured out, you start to question what you’re even doing. Can you relate? Maybe. Maybe not. That’s how my life works. The more I grow and learn the more I realize I have so much more growing and learning to do.
One of my biggest struggles through my personal business, hasn’t been finding the success, but how to tell other people HOW I found my success. Anything that you do and you’re good at seems simple to you, right? The clarity of life now has been opened so many doors and has also allowed me to discover how my influence can be a positive impact. I didn’t picture myself being where I am right now, giving anyone advice. My problem has been that alone. I haven’t had enough faith in what I was sharing because of the level of simplicity I’ve always seen it at. I struggled breaking down my knowledge of my calling for others to understand. To be clear, it’s not “required” to help others understand, BUT it is the best feeling in the world to be able to genuinely help others reach their desired goals and dreams.
Starting this path of helping others, I began to lose site of what I was even trying to accomplish or what I even really knew. You see, I wanted the success for them so bad, sometimes even more than them, that I was in such desperation to make it happen. Don’t do things out of desperation. I preach that, I know that. I have faith that God will take care of any situation in my life that feels out of control, because I’m not even in control. I’ve always treated my business that way. I do what I know I’m supposed to do, and give the rest up. This creates a relaxed approach and has led to an effortless flow of my business. YES, I have worked hard, and no, it hasn’t always been easy, but I love it. I love every single thing about it. Not everyone is like me.
Before I discovered where I was going with helping others, I wasn’t in that mode. I was in desperation mode. I wanted to help so bad, and have the answers so bad that I found every source I could possibly give them, made my own training, tried to guide them, but completely missed it be a long shot. When what I originally suggested, how I do things, didn’t work, I panicked. I knew it worked! It had to work! Why wasn’t it working?! I had to dig deeper. I gave up on “my way” and put all of my focus on sources outside of me. Sources I didn’t even use, instead of digging deeper in what I already found as simple. The hardest part of my business has been trying to break this down for others.
The problem with the outside sources wasn’t the outside sources. The problem was my lack of faith and my lack of belief. The effortlessly confident easy flowing business I ran, didn’t have a congruent foundation.
I love my life and I love my business!
