06/08/2026
My first and second babies that taught me being a mama has nothing to do with what we think we know and everything to do with what kind of kid you have! I have also learned over the years of being a mom that we donāt determine their personalities. We can shape them, teach them, pray for them, and show them what we know but they will become their own people, test you in their own special ways, and make you proud in ways the others donāt. These two are polar opposite children from each other but they are best friends and they love their mama! My oldest boy (long hair) the chillest, quiet, stands for all things women and their rights, loves to be alone, and will go to war for his family. He is the sweetest boy but he has seen his trouble and put me through it with the FWCS. But the love and friendship we have is unbeatable and having him at 15 has made him very aware of the world around him. If I ever need bailed out of jail or a DD; Iām calling him!
Then you have Bentley, my second born, my handful, my crazy, not afraid of literally anything but his mom finding out he did something he shouldnāt, heās my wild, brave, speaks out of turn, sometimes mean but always fixes it, sweetest, funniest kid by far! He is feral, he is a guys guy fully, he is always ready for anything, down for whatever, and always has a come back that will make you question your meaning of life 𤣠if i ever need back up or a body buried; Iām calling this one.
These two boys shaped me as a mother and I love them with more than my heart and soul. They hated eachother when they were little and being an only child, I was terrified it would last forever. Today, they FaceTime for hours while bent is at his dads and they tell eachother everything. If one has a secret, you arenāt getting it out of the other. They will ride for each other until pigs fly. I wouldnāt have it any other way. 4 year age gap but now that they are both teens, itās the most fun seeing them be brothers. ā¤ļø