09/21/2026
I went to the Ohio State vs. Texas game last Saturday.
It was a tough loss. Ohio State blew a 20-point lead in the 4th quarter, and as a fan, that hurts.
What is even sadder is what happened after the game.
People started sending death threats to the kicker for missing a field goal, along with hate messages to other players and coaches.
These players are 18 to 22 year old kids.
They are playing a game while balancing college, massive pressure, and life.
Missing a kick or making a bad play does not mean you deserve death threats.
Ever.
Sitting in the stadium and watching everything unfold gave me three big reminders about life:
1. Perspective Is Everything
Sports, business, and life are full of high stakes, but a game is still just a game. When winning a game matters more to you than treating people like human beings, you have lost your way.
2. Failure Is Part of Being in the Arena
It is very easy to sit on the couch or in the stands and yell at someone who fails. It takes real courage to step onto the field and put yourself in a position where you might miss. I know this firsthand. I have lost over $1 million to Ponzi schemes and failed investments, and I have made business mistakes that cost me hundreds of thousands of dollars. The people taking big swings in life will mess up sometimes. That does not make them a failure, it makes them human.
3. How You Respond to Loss Defines You
When things do not go your way, character shows up fast. Throwing tantrums, blaming others, and attacking people reveals who you really are. I have had to look in the mirror after losing huge sums of money, take accountability, and rebuild. True maturity is learning how to take a hard loss, learn from it, and come back better next week.
Let us be better as fans, as leaders, and as human beings. Support people when they win, but support them even more when they fall short.
What is a hard lesson a loss has taught you in life?