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The Finer Points Working with Creatives & Small Businesses, because I firmly believe you can thrive with support.
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08/17/2026

The beeeest kind of client feedback šŸ˜. That’s the whole point - freedom and clarity.

08/15/2026

I can see where you’re headed.

You’re in the middle of it, so all you can see is the inbox and the invoices and the client who already said yes and is emailing you again anyway. From in there it looks like a mess.

From out here I can see the business that’s about to exist, and the handful of things standing between you and EASE.

What I live for is the exhale. There’s a moment on a call, usually somewhere in the middle, where someone’s shoulders drop and they let out this big sigh. That’s when I know we got there. Not because I handed them a magic tool. Because there’s finally a plan, and they are not alone.

Nobody should have to carry the work they were called to do by themselves.

BUT there’s only so much I can do from over here if you don’t reach out!

I’ve watched capable business owners walk away from work that mattered, not because they weren’t good at it, but because the logistics buried them. That is such a stupid reason to lose something that you feel called to do.

The chaos isn’t proof you’re bad at this. It’s proof you outgrew the way you’ve been running it. It’s time to invite me in.

I’m right here when you’re ready.

This clip is from a podcast episode with LaShonda | Canva Verified Expert & Tech Educator, who graciously invited me to have a conversation with her ā¤ļø.

08/14/2026

Found this video while procrastinating packing- a Ted Lasso pop-up, a few years back.

I don’t think I understood then why that show landed so hard for people. It’s not the soccer. It’s a guy who walks into a job he’s not qualified for and refuses to do it by himself.

I did it by myself for a long time. I’m an introvert and reaching out to another person takes me a whole run-up šŸ˜…. BUT, being an introvert is not an excuse!

On a call last month, I told a client - ā€œThere is not a single woman running an empire who’s doing it alone. It’s a facade.ā€

People hire me for a system. What they also get is having someone to send an idea to and ask ā€œis this right?ā€

It takes vulnerability and trust to ask another business owner about an idea you’ve been brewing and I’m always so grateful for my clients.

But I believe with every fiber in my being, that you are not meant to do this alone. Let’s go farther together. Who wants to work with me next? šŸ˜

08/13/2026

Most people think booking more clients is a marketing problem.

More posts, more reach, more leads.

It usually isn’t.

It’s this: the contact form you set up once and never looked at again.

I pulled this piece from a talk I gave for HoneyBook on how to book more clients in 2026, and this one section changes how people see their whole business.

The full thing is free, just comment CONTACT below.

08/12/2026

I am building the HoneyBook course that does not exist yet.

Nowhere. I have looked, and everything out there is either three UI updates behind or covers one feature and stops. Meanwhile HoneyBook changes something every few weeks and I see most of it early as a beta tester.

So I am making the real one. And before I record 76 videos, I want to hear from the people who would actually use it.

Tell me in the comments:

1. How many videos before it stops feeling doable and starts feeling like homework
2. What you would expect to pay for something kept current, not recorded once and abandoned
3. Beginner setup, advanced automations, or everything in one place?
4. The one thing in HoneyBook you have never fully understood?

Answer whichever you have an opinion about. Even one number helps.

And send this to the HoneyBook user in your life who has been avoiding their automations since... Legacy files (IYKYK). The more people I hear from, the better this thing gets.

Cover photo: a l l e n c l a r k šŸš€ Photographer

I’ve wanted to sit in this one tiny room for years, and I finally made it in (thanks to dear mentors).It’s the Bluebird ...
07/26/2026

I’ve wanted to sit in this one tiny room for years, and I finally made it in (thanks to dear mentors).

It’s the Bluebird Cafe in Nashville. Holds about a hundred people, with a line out the door every single night. We had seats right behind the musicians, close enough that I could hear them breathe before a hard line.

Somewhere in the middle of her set, one of the performers mentioned she used to be the cook here back in the eighties, before she even really knew how to cook. She apologized to the whole room for it. We all laughed, and I sat there kind of glowing, realizing we were listening to a Grammy winner sing in the same place where she once worked the kitchen. What a journey to get to witness.

That’s the magic of that room. Nothing is scripted, so the night you’re there is the only version of it that will ever exist.

I don’t talk about this part of my life much, but I studied music. I spent years managing orchestras, operas AND performing before I ever touched a business system, so I know exactly what those nerves felt like. I could hear them up there, and I watched them sing straight through the fear while the whole room pulled for them.

That’s the thing I never get tired of. A small room, a full house, somebody betting on a calling before anyone’s sure it will work. That’s where all of it starts.

07/24/2026

ā€œMy little internet business.ā€

That’s how a client described eight years of her own work to me. She picked up the phrase from a family member and kept using it long after they stopped.

That’s how it works, doesn’t it? The mental repeating to ourselves, until it becomes how we price our work and how we view our mission.

Language does that. Call something little long enough and you start protecting it less, taking the side job that eats a full day for almost nothing, leaving money on the table because charging real prices would mean admitting the whole thing is real.

Eight years is not a hobby. It’s someone’s income, their calling, and a whole life built on top of it.

If you’ve been handed a smaller word for your work, you can hand it back.

07/23/2026

She chose Disney World for the hardest work of her business life. Two and a half days, round the clock.

Kate is eight years into her business. Someone once called it ā€œher little internet business,ā€ and part of her believed it. That’s what she came in carrying. The systems were never the real problem.

We built three months of email content in one afternoon. Mapped the full financial picture. And had the conversation nobody puts on a sales page, about why a capable woman eight years in couldn’t take a compliment without deflecting.

She left with a marketing calendar, a strategy built from her own words, a HoneyBook build underway, and a resignation plan with a date on it. During the intensive, she says she’s optimistic it’s going to work. First time in eight years.

She came in hiding. She left out loud.

Kate, I’m proud of you, thank you for trusting me!

07/22/2026

You already know which emails to delete before you open them.

That’s the hard truth from this workshop I gave with HoneyBook. We taught our own clients to ignore us, one worthless subject line at a time.

Here’s the flip side. The very first email you send a new client teaches them what your emails are worth. A vague ā€œthanks, we’ll be in touchā€ trains them to skim and delete you from day one. Tell them exactly what happens next, and they learn the opposite. Your name in their inbox starts to mean something worth opening.

This is what I mean when I say clarity is kindness. A clear welcome email isn’t a nicety. It’s the most respectful thing you can hand a nervous new client. It confirms they made the right call, tells them what to expect, and lets the wrong-fit people step out before anyone’s time gets wasted.

Every email trains someone. The only question is whether you’re building trust or teaching them to ignore you.

Start with the welcome email. It sets the tone for the whole relationship, from the first inquiry to the day you ask for a review.

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