05/22/2026
Sometimes I compare strategic planning to cleaning out the sock drawer. Here’s why: it’s a time to decide what to continue, what to stop and what to add. My method has always been, dump everything out on the bed so I can see what I’m working with. Sometimes I find some things I want are hidden under what I no longer need or want. Just like life.
I take those socks that are still in good shape, no holes or stretched out and put them back in the drawer. Next come the fashion and utility review. Athletic socks too thin to serve their purpose are out. I think I’m done with those cotton socks with funny designs, Covid jokes, subway maps, argyle they all have to go. Cactus socks from out west gone. The orphan socks and the quiters, they go out too. The goal at this stage is to have sorted all the socks. They are either back in the drawer or on their way to the trash.
So far so good.
Next comes a moment of contemplation and discernment. What socks don’t I have but need or want? Golf socks, running socks, another pair of UCONN socks?
Cleaning out the sock drawer of life is an iterative process, something we do over and over throughout the course of our lives. What do we want to keep, toss and add?
Think about the different elements of your life, your family, friends, relationships, work, interests, community, health, intellectual life, emotional, and spiritual life. You may be saying, all of those must go back in the drawer, they are what make up my life. No argument there. This is about considering what aspects you want to hold onto and what do you want to change. I started boxing again in my 50’s. It became a large part of my life for several years. Now it looks a little different, the competition isn’t nearly as important as the training and camaraderie.
Cleaning out the proverbial sock drawer is a chance to rebalance how we spend our time, energy and talent, (not to mention money). A key question is, Does this add to my well being, my growth, my purpose, my joy? Of course, there are some must do(s), like taxes and food shopping, you can also ask: is there a way to simplify, delegate or change things up. Are there patterns or obstacles that make everyday tasks more burdensome than they need be? This is your chance to streamline.
Clean that drawer, take back control and don’t be afraid to toss the mismatched or ugly pairs you got in last years Dirty Santa.