08/29/2022
Embarrassing story:
When I first started freelancing, I took a call after school in my classroom.
Me: For the project we've been discussing, this is my rate.
Prospect: Hmm...Where are you getting that number? We just paid an editor less than that. I wouldn't expect to pay more for this.
Me: Uhh.. uhhh.. ok - what should we do instead??
Prospect: I can do X.
Me: Um, ok, yea that sounds good.
Ramit Sethi talks about “invisible scripts.”
These are stories we tell ourselves, that were imprinted at some point in our lives, and that can have a limiting effect on our actions. Other people have similar terms with similar meanings. The point is that we tell ourselves things, that may or may not be true, but they don’t let us succeed to the extent that might otherwise be possible.
[See my post yesterday on self-actualization for more on that]
As the story above shows, I had an Invisible Script for sales to deal with.
At some point, I learned that sales was risky, difficult, and worst of all - something people were either good at, or not. My Invisible Script told me I was not good at sales and couldn't get better.
Eventually, I discovered a backdoor to sales through copywriting. This led me to study the psychology behind sales but apply it in a way I was more comfortable with, writing words on a screen and not facing people in person, on the phone, or on a video call.
Fortunately, learning basic principles like framing, anchoring, contrast, visual language, pain points, etc. are directly applicable to any kind of sales. So after lots of practice and a little bit of learning, I eventually made some progress.
So going back to the story above, it's not that I necessarily should've been paid more, it's at that time I didn't believe I could take a specific approach on the phone that might avoid that situation all together.
What is an Invisible Script you have or had? Share or ask a question below.