08/04/2026
I Was Tired Of Being Told What I Had To Wear. So I Figured It Out Myself.
I want to tell you something
about who I actually am.
Whenever someone tells me
I cannot do something —
or that I have to do something
a certain way because of my body —
something rises up in me.
Watch me.
Conventional wisdom told me
what I had to wear
because of my body shape.
A-line skirts. A-line dresses.
Only those. Because of my hips.
I was tired of it.
So I picked up a needle and thread
and decided to figure out something better.
I was designing a shift dress for myself.
My hips were slightly wider than my shoulders —
not dramatically, but enough
that the conventional rules applied to me.
I added princess lines to the dress —
seams that run from the mid arm,
over the bust, through the waist,
and all the way down through the hip to the hem.
Then I started experimenting with placement.
First I placed them the conventional way —
closer to center front.
Then I moved them about two inches wider —
closer to the outer side of the hip.
When I made that two inch shift —
something changed.
My hips appeared narrower.
Not because I changed my body.
Not because I found a better size.
Because the vertical line was now
moving through my wider area
instead of my narrower one.
I felt it when I wore the dress.
Other women noticed and commented.
And in that moment —
standing in a dress I made with my own hands —
I understood something
that no fashion rule had ever told me.
Vertical lines move the eye
through the area they run through.
And that area appears narrower.
Two inches.
That was all it took
to prove conventional wisdom incomplete.
Not a textbook.
Not a fashion course.
My own body. My own experiment.
My own discovery.
And it became the foundation
of everything I have taught
for the last 20 years.
Watch me — has always been my answer
when someone says I cannot.
And this dress was one of the first times
I proved what that means.
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