14/03/2022
What was the scariest 3 ½ minutes of my life?
I was driving through NYC with a friend last week and heading to Queens.
I decided to take the 59th Street Bridge, completely forgetting that an OUTER roadway is not an UPPER roadway.
My “oh F$%K” moment was at around 55 seconds in the video linked below. This is not my video. A brave person who obviously isn’t me filmed it with a dash cam.
I am deathly afraid of heights and although I am not afraid of most bridges, I like to get on and off quickly or, at the very least, be shielded by traffic and not actually see the height factor.
For those of you who may not know, the outer roadway of the 59th Street Bridge runs along the side of the bridge and basically feels like you are driving on a narrow road with a low guard rail hanging over nothing.
This was the longest and scariest 3 ½ minutes of my life. I was in a full on panic attack. God bless my friend for staying calm and supportive. I would have been terrified driving with me at that moment.
She noticed me using some of my panic attack tools that I use when I feel panic or anxiety coming on. I would like to say they worked perfectly but they did get me through the situation. There was nowhere to stop, pull over, back up or get off. I had to move forward.
It’s not a bad metaphor for life and for business. Sometimes you can’t go back, get out or have a do over.
What do you do?
You use the tools you have, hope they help and keep moving forward.
That being said, on my next trip from Manhattan to Queens, I’ll be taking the tunnel.
https://youtu.be/5iyTR58MysA