16/03/2026
I cannot tell you how many times I have heard someone say, “I hate people.”
And if I am being honest?
I have said it, too. I've said it a LOT.
Usually after a frustrating email.
A no show.
A tough comment.
A long day.
Back when I ran GlitterGirl Vinyl and sold customized Starbucks cups, the one that read “I Hate People” was a best seller. By far. It flew off the shelves. People laughed. They bought it for themselves. They bought it as a gift. It clearly struck a nerve.
And here is the plot twist.
But here is the truth. I do not hate people. Not even close.
As an extrovert, I am a true fan of people. I am energized by conversations. I love stories. I love watching someone light up when they talk about what they do. I love connection, collaboration, and community. It is literally the foundation of everything I have built.
What I actually mean in those moments is this.
I am tired.
I am overwhelmed.
I am disappointed.
I had an expectation that was not met.
“I hate people” is usually shorthand for “That interaction drained me.”
And in business, especially when you work closely with clients, teams, audiences, and communities, there will be draining moments. That does not mean people are the problem. It means we are human.
The beautiful thing is that for every tough interaction, there are ten that remind you why you love what you do. The client who sends the thank you note. The conversation that sparks a new idea. The collaboration that turns into a friendship.
People are messy. People are complicated. People are emotional. And people are also brilliant, creative, resilient, generous, and inspiring.
So no, I do not hate people. I love them.
Sometimes I just need a coffee, a deep breath, and a reset before I jump back in. 💖
