12/09/2022
5 ways to develop your uniqueness.
In today's society there is a trend towards individuality. Unfortunately, misunderstanding this term, people turn into exactly the same representatives of their subcultures. Different from each other, they are infinitely similar to each other.
However, individuality has a simple secret - you should not stand out from the crowd of people, but people should mark you among themselves. A change of perspective produces amazing results!
Here are some tips for those who want to reveal their individuality and uniqueness.
1️⃣ Read books. Any. Unlike movies, where you are shown what you have to perceive, books are images encrypted in letters. In this case, you do not just consume information, but use the areas of the brain responsible for creation.
2️⃣ Hobbies. In the modern world, there are many ways to express yourself even for not very creative people, however, do not scold yourself for working with template constructors! Just as we used copybooks to develop writing as children, so embroidery or outline drawing kits will be a great help in the art of expressing yourself.
3️⃣ Express your opinion. It would seem that in the era of the Internet, everyone can do this. However, if we leave out writing comments on posts, no more than 5% of users are involved in creating unique content. Try writing an article about a movie you like, or get your friends involved in your musical taste. Those who can write more than 3-4 sentences in a comment to a useful article are also very interesting.
4️⃣ Attend free workshops. In pursuit of clients, more and more different centers hold open meetings. And if you don't sit there with water in your mouth, you can get quite a lot of benefit. So, for example, at master classes in osteopathy, you may well become an indicative example, and your spine will be corrected for free. Or you can get free advice from a very expensive businessman in his open class.
5️⃣ Dream. At one of the seminars, I was once asked to write 50 material goals. I was very surprised when, after the first 30 standard goals, like repairing an apartment or a car, my brain suddenly began to give out what it really wanted. For example, make a wall in your apartment from your photographs. Try to do this exercise (50 goals) not only for the material sphere, but also for the areas of recreation (50 places you can visit), communication (50 people with whom you would like to communicate). The most interesting will be in the second half.
And finally - about the cycle of development of individuality in a person. From the very beginning, he is the same as everyone else: he weakly stands out from the general crowd. Then a riot begins, and the person becomes one of those who are in the same crowd, but smaller (a crowd of "not like everyone else"). And only after passing the second stage, a person ceases to be either "like" or "not like that" and becomes himself. Don't be afraid of the second stage, but be afraid of getting stuck in it. Believe in yourself and move forward!