23/09/2022
Promises you must make to yourself and always keep 1. I will not hold on to the past Your problems, your weaknesses, failures, regrets and mistakes can teach you a lot if you are willing to learn. And they can exhaust you if you're not ready. So allow yourself to learn every day. Take everything as a useful lesson. If you regret some past decisions or actions, stop carrying it with you. Then you did your best according to the knowledge and experience you had. Then you were younger. Perhaps if you made a decision today, already with more experience and knowledge, you would have acted differently. So give yourself some relief. Time and experience will help you grow and learn to make the right decisions for yourself and those you care about. I will manage my own life and take responsibility for my actions. You blame your parents, teachers, the education system, the government, but not yourself. After all, you are never wrong . But it is not. If you want to change, if you want to move on, the responsibility always lies with you. Only you can make your own decisions. You alone must be responsible for them. Manage your life on your own. I will refer to myself as a friend Think about what you usually say to yourself. Are these inspiring, encouraging words that you could say to a friend? Or hurtful remarks, which only the worst enemy deserves? All day long we silently talk to ourselves and believe every word we say. So channel your inner voice wisely. Ask yourself: "If I had a friend who constantly told me what I tell myself, how long would he remain my friend? " 4. I will listen to what my heart tells me. Feelings and intuition rarely let us down (at least it's worth checking). And if deep down you feel that you are doing something wrong, most likely it is so. Pay attention to your true feelings and follow where they lead you. Listening to your inner voice, you will see that closed doors only seem like that. In fact, they are open to you. I will live the way I think is right Allow yourself to walk the path that makes you happier. It is normal that some people in your life will not approve of this and will discourage you in every possible way. After all, we all have different ideas about happiness. Dedicate yourself to creating your own happiness. As sad as it may sound, in order to achieve what you want, you have to give up something. And it is better to give up relationships in which you are forced to do what you do not want. I promise to let go of people with whom relationships have reached an impasse. Most people appear in our lives for a short time. They come, teach us something, change something in us and leave. This is fine. Not all relationships end, but all relationships can teach us valuable lessons. If you are open with each person, you will learn a lot of worth. Sometimes it is strange to realize that you have spent too much time with a person with whom nothing connects you anymore. But don't regret it. Everything is going exactly as it should.
