03/03/2026
Candid moment.
My sister took this shot without me realizing it. I don’t know what I was saying or laughing at. But I can definitely tell you how we got to this moment.
It’s a Sunday morning. I’m dressed for church but by the time I got in the car, I suddenly felt unwell.
I took a few minutes to decide if to go back in the house and lay down or continue where I was going.
We ended up barefoot at the beach instead…breathing the salt air intentionally, having both serious and lighthearted conversations.
This day also happened to be the eve of the 7th anniversary of our mother’s passing and 3 weeks since the passing of someone whom our mother secretly told to look out for us after she was gone.
This beach also happened to be Mummy’s favorite beach. We tried to remember whose idea it was to come here that day we left her behind in the hospital for the final time. We probably hoped we’d find her there.
What I love about this pic is that it’s not staged. No fake smiling. It’s a smile that says, “I’m still here and I’m okay.” And even when okay is the minimum, that’s okay.
Today’s goal. Remember to breathe. If you’re just “okay”, that’s okay.
✍🏽 Now back to work I go.