20/12/2023
Here is the bare bones truth……
The truth that cuts like a knife….
The truth that has the potential to shut you down, or
…. Motivate you to greater heights.
Here is the truth…..
Next year won't be any different......unless YOU are different.
The rolling over of the calendar will make no difference to your life. In fact, most people will simply repeat what they did in 2023.
Why is that?
Why have I gotten stuck at times in the past? Why do other people get stuck?
It’s not that they don’t want to make big changes in their health, their job, their business, their finances, their life……
I think for me and for so many others,
It's understanding how you create change in the first place.
My experience has been that everything starts with your mindset and beliefs. Here are just a couple of many insights I’ve learned:
1. Face the truth
Really OWN where you are right now. That doesn’t mean accept it….that means don’t live in denial. Years ago, when deep down I thought that all I deserved was to struggle through life, with relationships, with finances, and with mental torment, I would have absolutely denied that I felt like that was all I deserved. I put on the good face and faked it every day, but guess what….the reality was that I DID believe that, and that’s exactly what my results were telling me!
This was hard to face, but when I did, it allowed me to take responsibility and move my life and business to new levels and create the life I want for myself.
2. Have Clarity about the beliefs you must embody to create the outcome you desire
If you’ve never done this, spend the time to get REALLY CLEAR on the declarations you must embody to produce the results you want. This is more than just standing in front of a mirror and speaking positively to yourself, although that is a great exercise, too.
For this idea to work best for me in business, I had to ask myself questions like
“What would I believe about myself if I was at the level I desired?”
“What am I truly committed to; what am I truly not committed to; what am I pretending to be committed to but really not?”
“If I was to show up as a leader in sales and affiliate marketing, how would I be, act and feel?”
Getting crystal clear on these answers meant meditating on the questions, praying about them, crying tears over them, and writing them down, so I really did own them. All of this was and is crucial to my moving forward……
… in all areas of my life… health, career, relationships, finances, lifestyle. More to come, but reach out if I can help in any way.