09/12/2025
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Have you ever attended an event where one of the speakers talked about networking?
One of the first points they always mention is that you have to have a goal before you even decide to attend a networking event.
To be honest, as simple as that sounds, I never quite grasped what that meant. I was only ever interested in getting clients for my, at the time, freelancing.
It never occurred to me that there could be anything more I would need from a networking event until one day I was looking to get a sponsor for an event I was organising.
I got delayed to no response and wondered, "Is something wrong with me? Do I have to walk into their office with an expensive suit to show them that I mean business?"
I later came to understand a simple analogy. If a stranger walked up to you, introduced themselves to you and told you a story of how they are stuck and need a K50 for transport to get back home, how likely are you to reach for your pocket to give them that money?
Alternatively, if a friend of yours with whom you've stayed in touch over a few months or years walked up to you with the same story and even asked for a K150, how quickly would you say, "Okay, let me see what I can do"?
Simply put, having a relationship with someone is fundamental to doing business. I used to think that all I needed was clients until I needed certain doors opened. It helped me see that there are building blocks required for you to better serve your clients.
Being a consultant and systems optimiser, I am seeing the bigger picture even more clearly. I have a better understanding of what it means to have a network rather than a list of people I happen to know.
So, the next time you attend a networking event, ask yourself: what am I really building here? Am I simply adding names to a list, or am I cultivating relationships that could open doors I didn't even know existed?
Start with intention. Connect with purpose. And remember, the strongest networks aren't built overnight but through consistent, genuine engagement over time.
What's been your experience with networking? Have you had a moment that changed how you approach it? I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments.