08/06/2026
We pay a price for growth, and we pay a price for staying the same.
The price of growth is sometimes outgrowing your circle.
The price of staying the same is slowing down your own development.
Many groups unconsciously follow the “crab rule.”
Everyone wants to stay together forever, so people start pulling each other down without realizing it.
Not because they are bad people.
But because growth creates change, and change creates uncertainty.
The same thing happens in families and relationships. People become afraid of losing each other, so instead of supporting growth, they try to keep each other at the same level.
But growth is a natural process.
Nobody can stop it forever.
There is another path: supporting each other’s growth so that there is always a reason to continue the journey together.
For me, this is why I cannot stop myself from growing. My mind and my soul are hungry for it.
You can delay growth, but you cannot betray yourself forever.
Your soul will continue knocking from the inside and asking you to move forward.
I believe that we are not born to stay comfortable, we are born to evolve.
And today I had a vision, that in the future I even will not speak with people who are not finished at least 10 AOI sessions, it’s becoming very difficult, the gap becomes too big.