25/04/2026
I’ll be turning 47 in a few months, and if I’m honest, the last few years have brought a lot of change.
My priorities feel different.
What I want to focus on has shifted.
And of course, my body is changing too.
Some days it’s subtle, but on other days, it’s more noticeable.
Clothes I used to wear without thinking don’t feel quite right anymore. Not wrong, just not as aligned with how I want to feel at this moment.
And I know I’m not alone in this.
For many women, this stage of life brings shifts in body shape, weight distribution, and hormones. It can feel like a moving target.
What helped me was realising that it’s not about going back to what used to work, but about understanding my body as it is now.
For me, understanding three key elements has made getting dressed so much easier:
1) Silhouette - the overall outline of your body
2) Proportions - how your body is balanced (longer legs, shorter torso, etc.)
3) Scale - your bone structure and physical presence
When you begin to see your body through this lens, you stop trying to “fix” it and start learning how to work with it.
Now, I focus on dressing in a way that feels both polished and comfortable, because those two things are not mutually exclusive.
In fact, for me, that’s the goal.
Because our bodies will continue to evolve, but how we respond to those changes can either create frustration or confidence.
And style gives us a way to support ourselves through that transition, rather than resist it.