09/01/2025
“Let them”
If you haven’t yet heard of the Let Them theory, then I encourage you to go and check it out! I ordered two copies last year, they arrived early this week and I immediately posted one to my BFF Emma and eagerly commenced reading mine on the walk home (where
I took this photo).
I have a lot to say but let me start with 👉🏼 Go 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I am only up to Chapter 6 and I’m hooked, so for the 17,000 other Australians who currently have this book on back-order, don’t walk, run to the bookstore as soon as it arrives!
Maybe I’m a little over zealous, maybe this is the motivation I need to kick the year off, maybe it’s because I attended a funeral today, or maybe this will help remind me who I am and what I deserve, and Mel I agree, “you get one wild and precious life, so
go live it in a way that makes you proud.”
I’m keen to learn and apply the theory and if you are reading it too, let me know what you think.
One of my favourite parts so far:
Problem: You are giving other people’s opinions too much power. When you let the fear of what people might think dictate your choices, you limit your potential and old yourself back from pursuing what you truly want. This fear causes you to procrastinate,
doubt yourself, become paralysed by perfectionism, and, most importantly, give up on your dreams.
Truth: People will have negative opinions about you no matter what you do. It will happen. Let them. You can’t control it. Allowing someone else’s opinion to distract or consume you is a waste of your time an energy.
Solution: When you Let Them think what they want, it gives you the freedom to do what you want. When you align your thoughts and actions with your values, you will be proud of yourself. And when you are proud of yourself, you won’t care what anyone
else thinks.
When you say Let Them, you make a decision to let people think negative thoughts about you. When you say
Let Me, you focus on the one person’s opinion who truly matters – yours.”
“Let them ... and then Let Me”