14/06/2026
⭑ FUN FACT ⭑
I originally started blogging back in 2013.
I'd just had my fifth child and, looking back, probably didn't fully acknowledge I was drowning a little...
OK, truthfully, a lot!
My version of self-care or 'me-time' wasn't yoga, getting a massage, or touching grass.
It was writing.
I'd always loved words. Stories. Poetry. Creative, sarcastic, swear-word style writing.
Writing was how I processed the big feelings growing up, the messy moments of parenting, and the thoughts of everyday life as a wife and woman.
Then in early 2018, something unexpected happened.
One of my more risqué, tongue-in-cheek, heavy on the sarcasm style blogs took off and ended up being featured on Huffington Post.
A little while later I received an email from an editor who had recently moved from Huffington Post to Channel 10's new website, Ten Daily.
He wanted to republish the article.
His exact words?
"Your amazing s*x post was our most-clicked piece of all time at Huffington Post."
Look, he could have exaggerated the truth here to sweeten the deal - I'll never know - and they were going to pay me.
The answer should have been obvious, right?
Except by that stage I'd received some pretty awful messages, nasty comments and a few online death threats from disgruntled men who apparently had very strong feelings about women writing things on the internet.
I was a people-pleaser and hadn't yet learnt that not every opinion deserved a place in my (very heavy) backpack.
At the same time, we'd just lost my father-in-law AND I'd started a new career in real estate.
So I politely declined.
And I don't regret it.
At the time, protecting my peace and safe-guarding my family and career felt more important than chasing an opportunity.
The only regrets I have are not having better comebacks for some of those men and tougher skin 🤪
Thankfully age and experience have greatly improved the thickness of my skin - though I'm not sure it's thick enough for the new 2026 version of haters!
So if you've found yourself wondering why I'm suddenly writing longer form content...
The truth is, I'm not.
I've been doing it for a very long time.
I'm just finally letting myself share it again 🩷