09/09/2026
Maybe confidence isn’t the goal anymore.
Maybe it’s just getting to the point where you stop editing yourself for everyone else.
I see this a lot with women, particularly when they’re in a period of change.
They’re not necessarily lacking confidence. They’ve just spent years dressing, behaving and making choices around what feels acceptable.
And at some point, you think: actually, I quite like myself like this…
That’s when style gets interesting.
Not dressing to look on trend.
Not dressing to fit in.
Not dressing for approval.
Just dressing like you’ve finally stopped asking permission.
That’s a very different kind of self confidence 🫶🏻