03/10/2022
Letâs chat about the dreaded INTERVIEW PROCESS, shall we?!
Face it, for most people, Interviews are something we dread. Very little of you wake up âSTOKEDâ to go to that interview, am I right?đ
Thereâs always a component of stress, concern, and self-doubt. And now, through all of that pressure, weâre being asked to make a lasting impression!? No problem, right?........đŹ
After interviewing candidates for over 2 decades, our Human Resources department has some feedback for those of you wanting to make a lasting impression in that interview:
đToo Stoic vs Too Relaxed
1. Companies care about personality; it can be the fundamental element that makes or breaks an interview. Your personality is what pops up in-between questions, and if you forget to bring yours to an interview itâs tough to make a lasting connection, especially if the other people waiting in the reception area to interview after you are eager to show theirs!
2. A candidate can come across sometimes as âTOO CASUALâ, to the point where they seem overly confident or even cocky. Yes, you will make a lasting impression, but not the one you were hoping for.
The Balance: Think about a first date. You want the other person to like you and chances are, they want to like you too. You go into the date being YOU but the best version, so you let them see your personality, but you are also mindful of being respectful and wanting to make a great first impression. Thatâs the sweet spot!
đVague Answers vs Ruthless Truthfulness
1. A lot of interviewees feel that glossing over the truth, to the point where you arenât saying much of anything, is better than the truth. But that vague avoidance sends the message that you are being deceitful and that is a tough feeling for your interviewer to shake.
2. Brutal Honesty on the other hand, can be mistaken for a lack of discretion, especially when oversharing about past jobs, co-workers, or previous managers. When part of the impression that you leave is one of being a gossip or down talker, even the perfect interview wonât overshadow that.
The Balance: Professional honesty dictates that you share how important workplace culture is to you, and you typically would not quit without another job, but your values were not aligned; that you had to make a choice to cut ties so you could find an opportunity that allowed you to be a leading contributor and a happy employee. When this happens, you come across more honest but without being a BITTER BETTY. đ
đEager Beaver vs Too Cool for School
1. Interrupting your interviewer. Sometimes this happens when you get overexcited however, consistently cutting off the interviewer is ALWAYS rude, ALWAYS!
2. Answering a question they did not ask. Often this happens when you do not know the answer to the question. If you are unsure, please ask them to repeat the question or phrase it a different way so you can get clarity on what they want to know.
3. Seeming as though you donât care if you get the job or not. This can come across in your facial expressions (lack of expression), your posture (slouching back in your chair), or even having a condescending tone. No matter how qualified you may be, no one is going to make you their first choice if it appears that you are TOO GOOD for this job.
The Balance: Trust that your interviewer knows what they are doing. You may want to speak to a different skill set, a different experience, or expand on something they are NOT asking for but please participate in the interview YOU ARE IN, not the interview you want. Trust that they are asking what they want to hear about.
Remember, show your TRUE personality, be RESPECTFUL in your truths, and PARTICIPATE FULLY in the interview by answering what is asked, and show that you want to be there.
Have fun in those future experiences and good luck!đ¤