02/14/2026
I was suffering this morning… frustrated and annoyed. Have you ever felt this way? It always seemed like people are tearing me down crushing my dreams “they are out to get me” keep me small telling me to “stop dreaming”
“Get my head outta the sand”
“You can’t do this that or the other thing. “
And then I remember who I am
“Watch me “
I say and then it’s starts over
I doubt myself
I second guess and analyze
I go up to eagle view for strategy
Have I considered all the angles?
Am I moving in the right direction ?
Is it in line with my goals?
Have you ever felt this way?
Oh ya and it’s Valentine’s Day 💞 so
I ask myself the same things of my relationships:
Not just with my partner
My family
My friends
My clients
My mission
My vision
Its relationship day 💞
so I will share with you the biggest secret I have learned in sales
and marketing…
and parenting…
and life…
In any relationship it’s all about 2 things…
What are they in your minds??
Stop 🛑 and answer…
For real…
What would you say??
This is HUGE…
DO NOT SKIM OVER THIS…
Ok here it Is:
1. Effective communication
And
2. Managing expectations
Think about it…
True?
Or true?
Whenever you get into a conversation that’s not going the way you want or triggering you
think 🤔 about this…
A. How could I approach this better
(“Stop justifying your reactions”)
B. How could I accept responsibility
(“If you’re going to Blame then for the bad stuff you gotta blame them for the goods stuff too!”)
C. How could I accept a state of happiness about this perceived negative thing
(“What if life is Happening for me not to me”)
This is what 38 years of mindset training with the greats like Tony Robbins have taught me.
It was an honour to serve his 3,000 person audience at Date with Destiny in 2017. And speak for 45 mins and move his audience. The outpouring of appreciation from hundreds and hundreds of people taught me Have more to give and teach and inspire.
How about you?
What’st do you have to give and inspire?
I know we arill have crappy thoughts and moments.
I hear you!
I learned how to make a mantra to get you back in “state” for sales and I’d be happy to share with you how it works if you have read this far!
Comment MANTRA!
