01/15/2021
Our Gratitude To South Surrey Peninsula Residents.
By Harvinder Sandhu,
South Surrey Peninsula Neighbours magazine would like to take this opportunity to thank all the wonderful residents who graced our magazine cover and shared their amazing stories of living in this wonderful community. Their humbleness came across as vividly as their love for this community.
I am blessed to know Dee (Darlene) Walmsley; she graced our January cover. Dee has made rescuing and looking after injured urban critters, such as raccoons (her personal favorite), squirrels, and her beloved Sunnyside Acres Park, her life’s mission. From being part of the team that stopped housing development which could have decimated Sunnyside park, to writing and producing local tv shows highlighting environmental and animal issues, Dee is in the forefront. Her video, ‘You Auto Know’, is about oil in our environment, it won the BC/Yukon award. I want to add that I consider her a dear friend and want to thank her from the bottom of my heart for all her support to me through this difficult year.
Douglas Milne, a semi-retired truck driver at almost 80 years of age, works a little “to stay young and out of the house.” He loves classic cars and can be seen cruising on sunny days in his favourite, a 1939 Dodge Businessman’s Coupe. His ancestry goes back to the 1400s, complete with a castle, Gordon Castle in Huntly, Scotland. He, though is living very much in the present, his second joy was spending time with his granddaughter, Ashley, in the award-winning Crescent Beach Legion Pipe Band, “I was lucky enough to be marching and playing bagpipes with her.”
In March I met a wonderful person whose life philosophy will help us all have less stress if we emulated it. Liz (Elizabeth) Stringer came here from Montreal and never looked back. Liz believes in being kind, “Sometimes just saying ‘hello’ or giving a smile can cheer a person.” She also believes, “if you can’t say something nice about someone, then don’t say anything at all.” Wise actions to live life by.
Bill and Margit Tonelli met when Bill came here from Ontario for his best friend's wedding. “I caught the garter and she caught the bouquet and the rest as they, is history.” Their philosophy of life is to, “strive for a healthy work/family balance in both our lives and our kids. It takes hard work and sacrifice, but so worth it.” They believe in helping others, “we may only have another quarter to make a difference in someone else’s life. Let’s keep striving to live a vibrant, caring life!”
In May I met a happy, loving South Asian blended family whose journey here was a long one. After spending a decade living between BC and California, Karthik and Sanjana, a father-daughter duo, moved back to Bengaluru, India, so Sanjana could get a taste of the ancestral home’s culture and language. While there, Karthik met Priya and her son, Ishaan, the four eventually becoming one family. The schools and proximity to the beach was an important factor in their decision to live here. “We really wanted to be as close to the beach as possible,” shares Priya. “I see a sunny day and want to go to the beach, forgetting that it is winter and cold out there!” Sanjana, 16, is now a contributing writer for the magazine on youth issues.
Fred Wickens, 70, and Kathy Booth, 66, are residents of ‘Crescent Heights’, local slang for their Crescent Beach area. Kathy and Fred are known fondly among their friends and neighbours for their generous spirit. Both are very involved in charity work, volunteering in many different organizations. Kathy, a former PHN, volunteered with others in making 250 fabric face masks for essential workers. Fred has helped raise money for the Food Bank through the sale of food cards and breakfast fundraisers, with last year’s breakfast fundraiser raising $7000. True to their nature, they thanked this magazine, “for supporting our neighbourhood.”
Michael Gill came to Canada from England at 20 and was living in the West End when he met Karen. Covid19 has made it difficult for them to spend time with their young grandson, but they grateful to have, “a backyard where we can have our family over as many people don’t have that.” And the other big thing Michael has noticed is that “he can’t go have a beer with his friends at the nearby pub, or out to the restaurant”. I know this is important as I have hung out with him and his buddies at their favorite pub. They are a hoot!
Lawrence McCarthy is an artist, a cartoonist, and a writer who, “Love it here. I’m surrounded by big beautiful trees, with squirrels coming and tapping on the window for their breakfast, beautiful birds in the garden, with the beach only a few minutes away, in fact, this is the perfect place.” He is a “self-taught” artist with amazing paintings, cartoons with funny captions, and short stories.
The Rashid’s, Anne-Marie and Haroon. They feel blessed for living and raising their children here, “Softball City and Centennial Park, are world-class facilities for kids to play in this area.” Covid19 gave them a blessing as all their grown children came back home to isolate. “We are lucky that the house is big enough for all of us to have space to do our own thing during the day and hang out in the evening together to cook,” shares Anne-Marie. Haroon shares his perspective on communities, “when we see the same people out walking in the park, shopping at the local stores, at local sports events, you kind of get to know them, this creates a sense of community and being bonded. We can start by just acknowledging each other via ‘simple greetings’ and smiles.” I want to add from myself and Adnan(our awesome freelance photographer), that it was a fun photoshoot with this exuberant family and their five beloved pets, 3 dogs and two cats!
Originally from Saskatchewan, Jack and Betty Rae moved here after Jack retired from the Foreign Service. Having travelled all over the world for his job, Jack felt Crescent Beach was the place for them, “the sun shines here more than anywhere else in Canada and it's not super cold”. I still remember the look on his face when he answered my query, 'share some interesting stories from your time in the Foreign Service', it was stern as he leaned over and said, "If I tell you, I have to shoot you". Then I saw a twinkle in his eyes as he leaned back and laughed. Still no story! Avid volunteers, Jack, a White Rock Rotary Club member helped charities raise money for good causes such as R.E.C. for Kids Society (used recreational equipment for children) to fundraise for $150 thousand dollars needed for a new playground at the Peace Arch Elementary school.
I am so happy to introduce this group of gentlemen. Not only good friends but also members of the local legion, they are a great bunch to hang out and have a beer with. This year they helped make our November issue; which with Covid19 and no access to senior veterans as the legion was closed, was going nowhere until they stepped up. I want to thank Mike & Colin Gill (brothers), Rus Bell, and John Cadeau, for making me laugh with their crazy jokes, constantly pulling my leg as they have a laugh at my expanse, and for showing up on a cold morning for pictures on the beach. They went out of their way to be there. I want to thank them all for sharing the local legion’s history. I especially want to extend my gratitude to Rus Bell for his ongoing support in connecting me to residents who are open to sharing their stories and for the history lessons in the area. Thank you, Rus!
Finally, I want to thank Jody for sharing her beautiful dogs and the story of her and Andrew’s journey to Crescent Beach. The Douthwright’s are transplants from Newfoundland, moving here in pursuit of higher employment with Jody ending up finding her life’s passion; working with dogs. I bet they are not leaving the area any time soon, having found this slice of paradise in BC.
I am grateful for the opportunity to share my experience of meeting these amazing people and humbled by their graciousness in opening their homes and lives to me. To all of you, a heartfelt thank you. I would also like this opportunity to invite residents of South Surrey Peninsula to share their stories with me and the community. I don’t bite, am polite, and fun to talk to. Ask these wonderful folks!
Lastly, Michael and I, want to extend our gratitude to all the local businesses that contribute to South Surrey Peninsula Neighbours magazine's success with their marketing. We appreciate your business and will to continue work hard to bring you success in return.