25/08/2026
Everyone counts the cost of the room. Almost nobody counts the cost of staying out of it.
£400 accommodation. £350 flights. Then the meals, the extras, all of it. On paper, a thousand pounds to go and speak at someone else’s retreat.
Here’s what the spreadsheet doesn’t show you.
In that room I met .
We didn’t know each other from Adam. But two days in an intimate space does what a hundred DMs never will, we didn’t just connect, the friendship escalated fast.
Since then we’ve shared stages up and down the country and spoken at each other’s events. When she came to mine last October, she made £10K+
Then her event took me to Blackpool, a room full of award-nominated women from all over the country, exactly my people. That’s where I met .thesoulalchemist , who is now speaking at Soul Speaks LIVE.
One Event. Ultra visibility. Friendships, partnerships, collaborations, stages, and an actual cash injection into the business.
This is why I host two full days, not one.
Because real relationships aren’t built in a lunch break. They’re built when you’re gently pushed out of your comfort zone and into a conversation you’d never get the opportunity to start.
The women who become known aren’t braver than you. They just stopped watching the room from the outside.
If you’re ready to be known and build a legacy that lasts, comment SPEAKER and I’ll send you everything for this years Soul Speaks where we will break down how to leverage events, speaking & become known inside the room.
