14/09/2026
Your email got delivered. It still never arrived. Different things.
I didn't get this for years.
Delivered means it landed in an inbox. A server said yes. That's it.
Arrived means someone actually let it into their head. Read it. Felt something. Maybe forwarded it to one person.
A dashboard can't see the second one.
I sent a postcard to a client last spring. Ugly one, from a gas station. She still has it pinned above her desk.
Same week I sent an email campaign with a 42% open rate. Nobody remembers a word of it. I don't either, honestly.
A postcard sits on the kitchen counter. Someone has to pick it up, flip it over, decide what to do with it. It takes up space in the room.
An email takes up nothing. It can be "opened" while the person is thinking about lunch.
So now I ask a different question before I send anything. Not will this get delivered. Will this take up space somewhere.
Most of my sends still fail that test. Working on it.