06/08/2026
Who am I without this job?
I've spoken to a lot of people who've reached the point of thinking about doing something different, may it be consulting or other things for retirement and this question always seems to appear.
It's rarely about experience anymore. By that stage, they've spent decades building careers, leading teams, solving difficult problems, and earning the trust of the people around them.
The part that feels uncertain isn't the work.
It's leaving behind the title that quietly became part of their identity.
I've started wondering whether that's why so many capable people wait. They're trying to answer a question that only becomes clear once they take the first step.
One thing kept coming back while I was reading stories from people who'd already made that transition.
Almost nobody said, *"I wish I'd waited longer."*
Quite a few said, *"I wish I'd started sooner."*
I keep coming back to that thought.
And the hardest part of moving on isn't leaving the job at all. It's believing that everything you've spent years building still belongs to you, even after the title is gone.
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