03/06/2026
Are you SITTING ON A THRONE OF LIES? đ
(OK, so maybe not lies đŤ )
But if youâre showing up as an edited-down version of yourself, itâs not exactly the truth, either, is it...
The truth is that youâre funny AF - but your audience only sees professional.
Maybe youâre wildly creative - but your audience only sees straight-laced.
Or perhaps youâve got important things to say - but your audience only sees neutral and agreeable đ¤ˇââď¸
The thing is that could be a weird, wonderful, complicated, brave, hilarious, intelligent, adventurous and emotional HUMAN BEING but somewhere along the way you decided some of those parts were best kept hidden.
ARGGGHHHHHH youâre editing out the best bits!
Youâre trying to fit into what you THINK they want.
Toning down your personality because you donât want to be âtoo muchâ.
Avoiding posting because being visible feels vulnerable.
Hiding your opinions because someone may disagree.
Then you wonder why your content isnât landing!
People can only connect with the parts of you that you allow them to see. (Not like that, cheeky! đ)
If you are only showing the edited-down version of who you are donât be surprised when people miss the bits they could genuinely resonate with.
The women smashing their content right now arenât necessarily the most experienced, most accomplished or most stylised. Theyâre the ones who stopped making themselves palatable. The ones openly being vibrant, complex, multidimensional beings â¨
You arenât going to be everyoneâs cup of coffee - and thatâs EXACTLY the point.
The goal isnât to be more likeable to everyone. Itâs to become more visible to those who need what you do most.
Let your personality act like your BAT SIGNAL to all the people who need you!
Wanna know more about your brand personality gaps and how to resolve them without losing you?
Take my quiz! đ https://nextlevelwoman.co.uk/quiz (link in bio)
(Yes, itâs been a while since I spent an inordinate amount of time on a carousel but what of it?! đ)