21/07/2017
Teaching the children to become independent and self reliant is one of the most essential lessons a parent can teach. Nowadays, parents are too much into getting perfection in everything (the competition is bad these days, I agree), that the child cannot cope up, and the parents are pressured. The children take their own sweet time to learn, cope and understand their daily rituals. And how good or bad or perfectly they do it, depends on how they see you doing it. Its fine to show them how its done, but then have patience to sit back and relax, while they take it in their hands. The best you can do is leave them be and set a good example by doing it yourself the best way you can. Show them its ok to err. That its ok to be awkward. Its ok to cry and get angry. Its ok to falter. Teach them, scold them, Guide them, coax them.. But all in all, let them learn it on their own....takes them a long way in building their self confidence.