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Edhin Benny, Parackal (H), Residence 128, Poickattussery, Chengamanad P. O, Eranakulam (2026)

10/12/2021

The Real me..!!

Grew up with very strict parents, I overthink a lot.😵‍💫

What is my real purpose?
Do I really need to be famous?
Do I really want to become more popular?
Would I rather just be better than I was yesterday?😢

Looking back,
The last two years have been the worst ever.😐

I dropped out of college...
I lost so many people around...
I was recovering from a breakup...
I got cheated by the ones I trusted...
I had to quit my job during the pandemic...
And since my father got bedridden...
I saw my mom struggling to make ends meet...😭

But I still feel like I'm blessed in many ways.
A lot of you have asked me,
How did I act so mature at a young age?🤔

It is simple, I have been through a lot you havent.
All those challenges made me better.🤭

My main goal for 2022 is Self-care. I'm intentionally investing my time in becoming a healthier person both physically, emotionally, and spiritually.😌

Getting into better shape, starting meditation and working on my skillsets and falling in love with myself again.🥰

These would give me more confidence, make me feel more comfortable around, doing more meaningful work, and eventually live a happier life.😇

What are your goals for 2022? 😎
Let me know in the comments below.🤗

04/12/2021

Well, that didn't work out..!!

Today, while standing on this balcony.
I was thinking about my first breakup.

It was January 23, 2017, She said 'yes' for the first time. Life began to change for a smart little teenager suddenly.🖤

It started out okay, things seemed great for a while until they weren't.🥲

I still remember the night she left.
Hearing 'I don't love you anymore' for the first time from someone you loved the most feels like a dagger piercing through your heart.
It hurts like nothing you've ever felt before.💔

The toughest part was dealing with suffering, accepting, letting go, moving on, and processing a lot of other feelings at the same time.😔

Trying to hold on to someone who didn't want me anymore drained me a lot.

I dropped so many of my friends, spent nearly two years without really interacting with anyone and the majority of the time staying at home. I was not living life how I should off.🙃

Years later, reflecting back on my first love with great gratitude, the one that prepared me for all the ups and downs of life that lay ahead.😊

It makes me realize how much I have grown from a teenage boy without a purpose to a man with a long term vision & goals. I can't thank my family and a very few friends enough for being there for me when no one else was there.😘

I reconnected with old friends, started learning and working on myself to become a new version of myself every day.😉

I'm finally living my twenties life to its fullest and met some amazing people along the way. I'm so damn proud of myself today..!!🥰

I don’t have to imagine where she is or whom she’s with now. I know she’s out there, living her life, as I am living mine. I'm always thankful for all the love and memories we shared in the past.🤗❤️

If you're reading this in a situation of self-doubt, just know that life gets better! Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.💖

Start accepting your life. Go out explore and live it!☺️💝

01/12/2021

I met this dog at Top station Munnar, He was the sweetest thing that happened to me during the trip, so happy and loyal.🥰

I had seen him around the camp during the two days I spent on the mountain. Belonging to nobody, they fend for themselves, relying on scraps of food found in rubbish piles or given to them by a generous hand.🐶

I never named this dog. He decided to follow me around the camp day and night.☺️

He slept outside my tent during the night and I heard him sniffing around or occasionally whimpering during the cold breeze.🙂

I desperately wanted to let him in, but I knew I couldn’t. I never once fed him or offered him more than a loving hand and some nice words, but he refused to leave my side.🥺

He followed me to the car on Saturday morning and waited until I fade from his sight.😢

He then stood on a tree stump as the car left, and I saw him standing there until I could see him no longer.😭

My mom always used to advise me not to touch or even go near stray animals. Well, I do know better, and yet I can’t help myself. Animals hold a very special place in my heart.❤️

I so often pet animals when I travel, and so often make one my companion, while I never go near an animal that I’m afraid of or one that looks aggressive.🥲

Nearly everyone I travel with shudders when I touch these animals, and I understand why they do so, but I do it anyway.😉

I’ve seen animals being abused, kicked, yelled at, and even tortured. I just want to give them one moment of kindness and compassion, A very rare moment in their short and difficult lives.😘

23/11/2021

Wow.!! This is the best feeling ever !

I had a moment of realization while sitting at the campfire during that cold breeze at Top station, Munnar.😊

What I have been missing out, for the past 3 years!! This was the first time I move out of my city in the last three years.🙂

The two craziest days of my life, striking off an item on my bucket list, meeting new people, and pushing myself out of my comfort zone.🤗

The biggest risk of all time is the risk of spending your life not doing what you want thinking you have the time to do it later.😑

I believe that travel is so much more than simply sightseeing, the things you learn from it can change your life..!!🙌

Travel helps me to grow as a person, to meet new people who inspire and educate and have my mind and heart enriched by the beauty and diversity of this amazing world.🥰

I travel to make the most of my time on earth, to make every day count, instead of counting down the days till the weekend because life is simply too short for me to live it any other way.🤗

11/11/2021

After a year at App24,
I realized I wasn’t learning as much as before and I left.🙂

My career was stopped in its tracks. It was one of the most significant events in my life.🥲

Everything I thought about work, money, and life was challenged.🙃

Thankfully, I went through this experience early in my career. I wasn’t prepared for that reality. I felt stuck.😣

But I took continuous, productive action to keep growing and I was constantly upgrading my skills.🥰

After collecting unemployment for 5 months, I finally got a freelance job in Zaash IT Consultancy, as an SEO & Digital Marketing Specialist.😌

I had never freelanced before. I was so desperate for work I leapt at the chance.😊

Those 5 months without work gave my idle mind lots of time to think.🤔

I believe that’s when the seeds of entrepreneurship sown in my heart began to grow in my thoughts.🤓

Freelancing was my first entrepreneurial experience, It paid well, I was good at it and I was left alone.😢

Honestly, I couldn’t handle the pressure. I was working in an entirely different way.😭

After all, I was taught to be an employee my entire life, and there is a certain comfort in that way of thinking.🤗

Freelancing motivated me to the idea of working for myself, It sparked my interest in the business side.👻

The business theory taught to me in the classroom wasn’t enough to satisfy the entrepreneurial instincts that multiples from deep inside me.😶

As I look back on my life, I realize that every time I thought I was being rejected for something good, I was being redirected to something better..!!🤗

23/10/2021

Getting out of SNGIST Arts and Science College in March 2020, I landed at App24 Marketing Pvt Ltd in Ernakulam.🙌

App24 gave me a world of opportunities. I joined as a delivery boy due to my financial struggle and ended up as a digital marketing executive in the company.🥰

The first year of my career was driven by acquiring new skills and responsibilities. I learned more about the corporate hierarchy, teamwork, and digital marketing.❤️

From the creation of a marketing plan to its Ex*****on was a challenging journey inside a startup and I was having fun along.😁

I was always nervous to share my thoughts in meetings. The most important lesson I learned from my App24 was to speak up! Sometimes sharing our small ideas may lead to great results.!!🤗

Speaking up can help you gain self confidence for yourself. Silence is often viewed as acceptance, and If you're not voicing your opinion, matters tend to get worse..☹️

So the next time when you find yourself in a situation questioning whether or not you should say something, Just do it.!!

20/09/2021

College is the beginning in any student's life after that disciplined life of schools, It gives us a sense of responsibility and freedom.😊

One of the most interesting stages in my life is the college phase. Life at SNGIST was the time I deep-dived into the ocean of new beginnings and possibilities.🤗

This golden period equipped me for all the upcoming challenges to be faced in life through a strong foundation of knowledge and experiences.👌

College helped me to meet different people, interact with them, learn about their cultures, their behavior and grow as a person.🥰

The first year was so exciting and fun. I thought I finally made it. Earn A degree, land an amazing job, and live happily..!!😍

But after a year, the circumstances changed, and I realized that the path I'm on is no longer the path I want to stay on.🙂

By this time I was deeply hopeless and suffering internally. I took B.com with great enthusiasm towards business and entrepreneurship, but soon I realized college isn't meant for everyone.😕

Creative people are being turned into robotic machines that generate results for MNC's. I can't relate to the dilemma I've proposed. I felt empty.💔

After many months of self-pity and blame, I began to change, slowly momentum was building.😉

The next phase of my career was driven by self-learning and acquiring new skills. I was learning twice as much as before but not from college syllabus.😌

Looking back now when I see this picture of me and my friends having a good time at college, I’ll land up smiling silently because I had no idea at that time it would be one of my best experiences as a student.❤️

The most important life lesson I learned in my college life is the value of relationships. It is the time when you make healthy friendships that might last even for a lifetime.💝

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18/09/2021

I believe everyone’s story deserves to be told, we all have a great untold story buried deep within us that needs to be shared.🤗

As an aspiring teenager, I used to read stories of Billionaires and successful people, they endlessly fascinate me.🥰

I’ve been researching alternative ways of working for 5+ years now. I’ve been stuck and got myself unstuck many times to transform myself into an entrepreneur.🤓

My career always has been a challenging one, but I strongly believe in the end, it will be worth it.😊

At this point in my life, I was pursuing my Plus-two at the nearest Public school and working part-time as an assistant drone operator.😌

I always loved to listen other people’s ideas and experiences and constantly networking with new people.☺️

I had no idea at the time that it would be one of the best experiences of my life.😉

I felt stuck many times, but I took continuous productive action to keep growing. Looking back, it was my natural path which I was unable to see at that time.😍

Sometimes, being in that comfort zone prevents us from improving ourselves. You must find ways to get out of that loop. Getting a part-time job can help you find new ways to improve yourself.❤️

Neither success nor failure should keep you from working on yourself and moving forward.🤩

No matter what happens, just always push your limits and strive for more...!!😘

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18/09/2021

Since I was a child, I had a hobby of collecting visiting cards of wedding organizers from every marriage function I attent. I had no idea about what to do with it during that time.🙂

After completing high school, I always wanted to earn by myself. I was always looking for a way for that. I came to know that some of my classmates are going to catering works. So I asked if I could join them, but they refused because I lacked experience.☹️

I sat with my best friend and started cold-calling the owners with those cards I collected. I was only looking for a job, the majority of them rejected.😔

Finally, I guy asked," I'm conducting an event at Adlux International Convention Center tomorrow, I need 30 boys! Can you bring them?😶‍🌫️

At the age of 16, It was such a golden opportunity for us. We both looked at each other for a moment and somehow I said yes..!!😬

The very next moment, we started collecting contacts of all the friends, classmates, and neighbors on a white paper and started calling each one of them.😐

We tried every possible way we can and gathered 15 people, and had no idea about the rest 15. We felt stuck, What to do next, it didn’t seem to work out.😑

A few minutes passed, one of my classmates ( )called back and said that he will bring the rest 15 with him, some of his friends were interested. It was again a movement of joy and excitement for us…🥰

Fast forward 6 years later, I had some knowledge or experiences to take away from many other jobs I did.🤗

If you are a recent grad that took a job that is not ideal, but you needed a job, make and take the best out of it.❤️

There are valuable lessons and gains from everything we go through in life if we just take time to look for them. Time can change many situations. One day you can look at the hardest experiences as great ones.💝

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