31/03/2018
As we are about to end a financial year, here's a piece of advice which'll help you make a strong balance sheet of your life as on 31.03.2019.
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Being heart broken is the new trend, I guess. Every second person you see is heart broken or has been through a break-up.
The root cause of the whole drama is, one doesn't have a definite focus in life, and the mind wanders here and there, towards rubbish things. Everyone has emotions, and that's completely understood.
There is a fundamental problem which one needs to solve. To begin with, first and foremost, sort out your god damn life. Set your priorities straight. Take 100% responsibility of your life.
You meet someone, start talking to him or her, you both spend time together, enjoy each other’s company, you think that person understands you, you find a good companion in him or her, the same person supports and stands by you during your emotional low times, and then you become emotionally dependent on that person, and then sooner or later reality checks in, and everything gets fu**ed up.
Getting involved into something romantic definitely feels good but something that's built on a weak foundation, how long do you think it'll sustain?
Take responsibility of your life! Build your career, get financial stability, and then think about getting involved into any such nonsense. Yes, I call it nonsense, simply because if two people are together, they take each other's responsibly, (that's what it means to me, might sound like an old school thing, but that's what I live by). So my dear friend, if at any given point in time, you're unable to take 100% responsibility of your own life, how do you expect to take complete responsibility of the person, you think you love.
I respect all the genuine emotions, any two people have for each other but boss, emotions won't pay for your bills. There are thousand things needed to be done by you to become an expert at your work, to reach the peak, the same work being the sponsor of your so called "love". Do them. Chase your dreams. Pursue your dreams you had as a teenager. Give life one chance before you take up responsibilities, you can't get rid of. This doesn't mean leaving your job, and following your so called childhood dream, acting irrationally. But what you can definitely do is, the amount of time, money and efforts you put in your "diabetic love" ,put the same into something which at one point, you actually loved. In all probability it's definitely going to be a better deal.
Only once you're totally into your priorities, taking 100% responsibility of your life, you'll realize many things about yourself, and maybe there won't be any space for relationships or so called "love".
Any two people of the opposite s*x, who understand, support and stand by each other, can be extremely good friends. There is no need to add excess sugar of emotions, it'll result in emotional diabetes and that is what happens.
Let life happen. Establish yourself as an individual first before letting anyone else into your life. You yourself don't know what are you looking for, and due to circumstantial scenarios, you screw your life as well the others taking the easy way out i.e. of getting emotionally attached and dependent. Have a god damn spine, and deal with your issues yourself before looking out for support. Build relationships which stay with you for a indefinite period of time i.e. friendships.
By the time you bring in stability in your life, you come to realize what kind of a person you yourself are, what is best for you, with what kind of a person you wish to spend your life with and finally, you understand the real meaning of compatibility.
Start with taking the responsibility of your life.
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Siddhant Gupta
Co – Founder
TEAM ED
