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06/12/2023

One of the best things that can happen to you after graduation is to have STRONG COMMUNICATION SKILLS.

Go and learn it by all means.

This is the reason why people ignore you or don't respond to your messages or emails, or why you meet someone once and they don't get back to you. It's because you're not effectively communicating.

What facilitates fraud? Communication.

What is interview? Communication.

How do you get visa? Communication.

What is pastoring? Communication.

What is a relationship? Communication.

What is marketing? Communication.

What is a negotiation ? Communication

What brings quarrel ? Communication

Some people actually know what to say, but they struggle to express themselves well, and that's a significant problem.

Some people have been employed not just because they passed the interview, but because they possessed excellent communication skills.

I have added some people as friends here because I saw their comments somewhere, and I have also canceled some friend requests because of the comments they made elsewhere.

As a matter of urgency. Go and get yourself skilled in effective communication ".

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05/12/2023

I am not okay right now. Things are getting heavy for me, and it's kinda tiring. I also don't want to talk to anyone. I just want to isolate myself and then show up myself again when I feel better. I know that I am not the only one who feel this way. Most of you here are also in pain. But I hope we get better soon. I hope we heal from everything that makes us feel not okay.

To you who is also hurting right now, I want you to know that I am rooting for your happiness. Keep fighting and keep living no matter how hard the situation is. May God always comfort you when you're feeling down.💐

01/11/2023

People who have come from humble beginnings think that building rentals is the only means of income and also a show off sign that ulitajirika
My friend building is expensive, buying plot in a commercial area is expensive
If you think having rentals is the only way you can invest in ,my friend it will be for your generation not for you ,
Note
I would not want to die empty, but so many kids who inherit property from their parents squander it in the shorter time possible, saa hii my female friend anakula pesa ya mubaba ameuza plot ya mamake kamakis
I choose to invest in a project that will help me in old age for my children I will teach them how to fish
Please note
I am a illiterate

01/11/2023

NAKED TRUTH ABOUT LIFE😭😭😭

1. He drops you off and drives back to his wife and kids.

2. He throws away used Condoms as he goes home.

3. He buys sweets to clean your fragrance no matter how expensive it can be

4. He forgives himself for cheating as he is driving to the mother of his Children.

4 He first takes shower to remove your unwanted sweats.

5. He then convinces him self that he can't leave his Wife and Children because of you.

6. He hugs her and ask his children about education.

7. He eats food cooked by his wife not two pieces of KFC he bought for you.

8. After eating he relax on the couch, and they both go to the bedroom.

9. They discuss about the future while she is lying on his chest.

10. Then they make love (Not s*x which he had with you).

11. He doesn't take bath after it because he is used to that Aroma of his Wife.

12. She continues lying on his chest while discussing their investment, policies and planning their Anniversary.

13. And you are alone struggling with s*x because he just did a fast.

14. He gave you 100k and your Mother is boasting that she has a discplined daughter not knowing that you are slowly turning to the resting zone of a bored Husband of some one.

My sister it is not too late, know your values and have goals that Man will never take you anywhere. Find your own Man and God will surely bless you.

Thanks for Reading!!

28/10/2023

I don't want our relationship to be just about I love yous and I miss yous and stories about how tiring our day went.

I don't want it to be just about how sorry you are for sleeping during our call, how much alcohol we drank last night, and how much you wanted to embrace me again.

I don't want it to be just about shades of red, teenage romance, and breaking the rules.

I dont want it to be just about us.

I also want it to be about how much you wanted to pursue your happiness, how much you call yourself a mess but still try to be better each day, and how much wounds you received but still believe in the process of healing.

I also want it to be about the days where we both wanted personal space, and rest, and time for ourselves.

And in the end, I also want it to be about how we forgive each other's shortcomings, how we celebrate our little victories, and how we accept our differences.

I also want it to be about the thanks yous for how we chose to stay, for how we looked beyond our imperfections, and for allowing ourselves to make mistakes.

I also want it to be about the sorrys for all the times we forget we're in love because of anger, for all the nights we begin to make distance, and for all the words we speak out of frustration.

I also want it to be about our growth—as a couple, and as ourselves.

Because I never wanted it to be another story of goodbye.

28/10/2023

For the sake of teaching, permit me a little latitude to contradict myself on this 👇 issue

Gentlemen,
A girlfriend is not responsible for cooking your meals or washing your clothes. She is dating you, not married to you. Wait until she becomes your wife; pay someone to do that for you or do it yourself.

Ladies,
A BOYFRIEND is not RESPONSIBLE for taking care of your FINANCIAL BURDEN. He is dating you, not married to you. Wait until he becomes your HUSBAND or better still LOOK for a JOB to cater for you. Truth is though a man should be able to take care of his woman but ladies must stop seeing a man as a POVERTY ALLEVIATOR, JOB OPPORTUNITY, REFUGEE CAMP and an ORPHANAGE HOME especially those ladies that have changed the VA**NA GOD created for PROCREATION into FUND RAISING. TEACH your daughters to be HUNGRY FOR SUCCESS, not to be HUNGRY FOR SUCCESSFUL MEN. Women makes money too
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I am morally right in my contradictions?
What is your personal viewpoint on this subject?
You can argue for or against... 🙏👏

28/10/2023

I need you to slow down, do not give up but to slow down. To reflect on everything you have and who is there for you. You are always finding something to do and somewhere to go, but the greatest gifts are already in your possession, give presence in these moments, especially to yourself. Listen to what your mind and body needs, but also your heart. It is time to reflect on what matters to you most, and what or who doesn't.

28/10/2023

ADVICE TO ALL EMPLOYEES

1. Build a home earlier. Be it rural home or urban home. Building a house at 50 is not an achievement. Don't get used to government houses. This comfort is so dangerous. Let all your family have good time in your house.

2. Go home. Don't stick at work all the year. You are not the pillar of your department. If you drop dead today, you will be replaced immediately and operations will continue. Make your family a priority.

3. Don't chase promotions. Master your skills and be excellent at what you do. If they want to promote you, that's fine if they don't, stay positive to your personal.
development.

4. Avoid things that tarnish your name or reputation. Don't join the bandwagon that backbites your bosses and colleagues. Stay away from negative gatherings that have only people as their agenda.

5. Don't ever compete with your bosses. You will burn your fingers. Don't compete with your colleagues, you will fry your brain.

6. Ensure you have a side business. Your salary will not sustain your needs in the long run.

7. Save some money.

8. Borrow a loan to invest in a business or to change a situation not to buy luxury. Buy luxury from your profit.

9. Keep your life,marriage and family private. Let them stay away from your work. This is very important.

10. Be loyal to yourself and believe in your work. Hanging around your boss will alienate you from your colleagues and your boss may finally dump you when he leaves.

11. Retire early. The best way to plan for your exit was when you received the employment letter. The other best time is today. By 40 to 50 be out.

12. Join work welfare and be an active member always. It will help you a lot when any eventuality occurs.

13.Take leave days utilize them by developing yr future home or projects..usually what you do during yr leave days is a reflection of how you'll live after retirement..If it means you spend it all holding a remote control watching TV, expect nothing different after retirement.

14. Start a project whilst still serving or working. Let your project run whilst at work and if it doesn't do well, start another one till it's running viably. When your project is viably running then retire to manage your business. Most people or pensioners fail in life because they retire to start a project instead of retiring to run a project.

15. Pension money is not for starting a project or buy a stand or build a house but it's money for your upkeep or to maintain yourself in good health. Pension money is not for paying school fees or marrying a young wife but to look after yourself.

16. Always remember, when you retire never be a case study for living a miserable life after retirement but be a role model for colleagues to think of retiring too.

17. Don't retire just because you are finished or you are now a burden to the company and just wait for your day to die. Retire young or whilst energetic to enjoy waking up for a cup of coffee, enjoy the sun, receive money from your business, visit nice place that you missed and spend good time with family. Those who retire late, spend about 95% of their time at work than with their family and that's why they see it difficult to spend time with their family when they retire but end looking for another job till they die. If they don't get another job, they die early.

18. Retire at your house than at government accommodation so that when you retire you can easily fit into the society that raised you. It's not easy to adjust to live in a location after spending more years at company house or at government house.

19. Never let your employment benefits make you forget about your retirement. Employment benefits are just meant to make you relax, get finished whilst time is moving. Remember when you retire no one will call you boss if you don't have a viable business.

20. Don't hate to retire because one day you will retire either voluntarily or involuntarily.

Hope this will help you look at life positively...

28/10/2023

Loving the wrong person.

So many people are suffering in relationships today because they refuse to let go of the person they are currently in a relationship with.

They know the relationship isn't working, but they refuse to leave because they feel they might be able to change the person.

They believe they are willing to go to any length to ensure that the person continues to "love them".

The hardest aspect is that they are doing everything in the hopes that the person would change, even when the person has no intention of changing in the first place.

If you're in a relationship right now where the person is causing you more grief than happiness, then it's time to let them go.

Accepting that things aren't working is the best approach to avoid getting hurt more in this type of relationship.

It's crucial to admit to yourself that the relationship is in disrepair.

I see so many people that are suffering in their current relationships because they refuse to face the reality of its true nature.

If your current relationship isn't working, do me a favor and don't force it, the more you force it, the more you will end up hurting yourself in the long run.

Nobody can take your happiness away if you don't want it taken away. Your happiness is in your hands; your happiness is dependent on you.

If you don't want others to continue to mistreat you......you have the power to stop them.

Take my advice and have the courage to leave the table when respect is no longer being served.

31/07/2023

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