Phrase of the Day, Atyrau (2026)

02/10/2022

Self-realization (1)
Self-realization is the embodiment of a person's inclinations, his potential and talents through a certain activity. This term can be considered in two planes. On the one hand - the action, and on the other - the purpose of this very action. There is always room for a person to move on. That is, the self-realization of the individual does not have a clear framework or restrictions, and accordingly, even the most realized people always have the opportunity to develop further.
Since a person is a biosocial phenomenon, it is not correct to consider the issue of his formation as a person in isolation from society. There are several types of self-realization:

Personal;
Creative;
professional;
Social.
1. Personal self-realization.
Since each of us positions ourselves as a person, this issue becomes important from early childhood. The child wants respect, understanding, approval of his actions. This tendency only intensifies with age, either leading to success or depression and complexes. Driven by this desire, a person chooses several possible strategies for his life path:

The desire for well-being and material prosperity;
Success in conquering the "tops", career growth;
Developing your skills and abilities, including hobbies.
In any of the above points, the personality of the individual, its self-realization, is placed in the center, regardless of the type of activity. The main thing is to get recognition and approval. First of all, from relatives and friends. Therefore, it is so important to harmonize the space around you, starting with your immediate environment.

2. Creative self-realization.
The desire to create something new is inextricably linked with the evolution of the human species. All the masterpieces of world culture, the achievements of science and technology are caused precisely by this impulse. Thus, the self-realization of the individual through creativity is rooted in the deep foundations of human existence. Creative, out-of-the-box thinkers always succeed better than those who act in a stereotyped way. This is especially true in the 21st century, the era of rapid development of technologies and information flows. Thanks to creativity, we form our response to the surrounding reality, expand our worldview. The most important thing is that any of us can create. Only the forms of expression of the creative act change. Poetry, prose, painting, sculpture, crafts for metal and wood, modeling, embroidery, origami, ikebana, graphic design and many other areas. Everyone can find a suitable occupation for themselves. And it is not so important to become the best, the main thing is to get recognition and approval.

3. Professional self-realization.
Success at work is also important to most people. And it's not just about money and promotions. No. Much more important is the feeling of being in demand, approval and recognition from colleagues and management. It is important to remember that work is only part of life. It cannot replace other aspects.

This type of self-realization has the following goals:

Feeling of belonging to a certain community of people;
The desire to take their place in the service hierarchy;
Desire to be recognized among colleagues;
Understanding your professional strengths and weaknesses;
Planning your future.
Everyone, looking at this list, can easily determine at what stage he personally is.

4. Social self-realization.
It is associated with the acquisition of general social success in the amount that a particular individual needs to feel happiness. This type of self-actualization is collective in relation to the previous ones. In fact, social self-realization is exactly the highest degree of human needs that Abraham Maslow spoke about. To achieve success in society, you can go completely different ways. Become a first-class employee, be a private entrepreneur, engage in acting or any other activity.

02/10/2022

In an ideal world, all people understand that good must be repaid with good, and they do it. For example, a mother carefully takes a child to classes that are interesting to him, and in return receives words of gratitude and pride. But the opposite also happens. "I didn't ask you!" (give me to gymnastics, feed me pies, buy a bicycle) - she can hear instead of gratitude. In return for her merits, mother also wanted to receive attention and care, and therefore did good where it was superfluous.

Due to negative experiences, a person in a reflective position experiences resentment and a feeling of exhaustion. What could be worse than trying for someone else, wasting time and money, waiting for a response and getting nothing as a result?
But few people, analyzing the experience gained, notice: it turns out that his efforts were not appreciated, because no one asked for them. After all, it is you who want to receive theater tickets for his birthday - and your partner prefers new pans, that you want praise and attention, but he needs personal space.

At the everyday level, proflection resembles a market contract: you - to me, and I - to you. But if there are established rules and obligations between the seller and the buyer, then such agreements are rarely concluded in personal relationships. A proflexing person does not verbalize conditions that could be insurance against resentment.
On a subconscious level, a person may have an attitude that he is not worthy of getting what he wants, but someone else may well claim it. People with a high degree of proflexion can have many friends, they like to turn to them for advice and help, which they will always provide . But when all the energy is spent on others, there is nothing left for yourself.
It is important to begin to regain self-worth and allow not only to want, but also to receive. Start to be more interested in yourself than in others. Listen to the advice that you give: maybe you should give them to yourself?
1. Recognize the need
It is necessary to understand what you want for a partner or another loved one, and assign this desire to yourself. This is already a big step, which will take time to implement. Pay attention to your own feelings when, for example, you cook dinner for your partner over and over again in the evening, but at the same time feel resentment when he does nothing of the sort for you.

2. Start meeting that need in a more direct way
It is important to see what attitudes lie behind the fear of an open request. Maybe you remember family messages or communication patterns learned in previous relationships.

3. Master the Direct Way to State Your Needs
After all, your partner or friend is not required to speak this Aesopian language and most likely does not even know the rules of the game.

01/10/2022

Self-realization (2)
Society is so multifaceted that there is a place for everyone in it. And, accordingly, in any manifestation of human activity, one can be recognized and approved. Anyway, it's worth mentioning. Truly established people do not depend on someone else's opinion, they have already proved everything to everyone. Those who have not yet had time to fully realize themselves are looking for confirmation of their success in the reviews of others. But, this is only one of the stages of personality formation, through which almost everyone passes.

Self-realization is an integral component of a full-fledged human life, without which it is not conceivable as a biosocial species. This state can be achieved in various ways, including both personal recognition and creative, professional and social fulfillment of a person. The main thing to remember is that the listed types of self-realization are interconnected parts of one whole. And in order to feel successful, you need to improve in each of them.

01/10/2022

You look at one person, and the confidence that you admire comes from him. And next to him is a guy who is closed in himself - he is afraid to speak out and make an extra move. How to regain self-confidence if you have become a hostage of complexes? How not to be afraid and finally express your potential? If your life has become like a struggle, and stress haunts you, it's time to take the helm of your “ship” and break stereotypes. Let’s say “come on, goodbye!” to uncertainty. We begin to be the master of our life. If you know the main secrets of absolute self-confidence, you will never feel helpless in society. No matter what the situation is, no matter what they tell you and no matter how they look askance at you, you can stay with your head held high. How, after all, to quit the addiction to underestimate your “I” in the face of others? A person begins to neglect his own interests in order to avoid criticism.

Start respecting people for their personal accomplishments as well as yourself. Don't look at the property they own. Think what they have done in life. Did they create anything? Have you improved the lives of those around you a little? How hard did you work?

Read biographies of successful people
Find out how they started, how they managed to turn what little they had into something more. What principles did they adhere to and what sacrifices did they make in order to achieve their plans.

01/10/2022

Personality is one of the most ambiguous concepts. This ambiguity is not so much
conceptual, how much conceptual. The problem is how to combine different
definitions of personality. In the ordinary mind, one of the three one-sided
interpretations.
The first is “every person is a person” (the equivalence of a person according to the criterion of Homo
sapiens);
the second one is “the personality of a person with his own position” (criterion of subjectivity);
the third - "personality - an outstanding person" (criterion of a person's position in society).
The core problem from which the problem of psychology actually grows
personality, is a psychophysiological problem that transforms into a problem
relationship between personality and organism. It can be argued that to refer to the human
of the individual, two concepts were established for some time - the organism and the personality.
Organism means the totality of everything that represents the biological nature
human and is the subject of study of biological sciences. The concept of personality refers to
aspects of human nature, which, by their objective nature, act as
its higher properties and integrating functions. Therefore, "to use the language of Hegel,
the organism is "removed" in the personality as in the highest unity of its biological and social being.
The fact that man, being a living being, is subject to the law of the biological sciences,
who cannot be doubted. Also, no one can question that a person
a social being.
It is obvious that the natural, organic aspects and traits of the individual exist in
personality structure as its socially conditioned elements. Biological exist in
personality in a transformed form as social. Unity, but not identity of the concepts of "personality"
and "individual" raises a number of questions. Among them, the main question is the question of what
represents a systemic quality of an individual, which is denoted by the concept of "personality".

27/09/2022

Don't energize your problems
The less you talk about them, the faster they will disappear. Any problem that can be solved is not a problem. Therefore, you should not let stupid little things clog your head, spoil your mood and lose your mood.
I allow myself a day to be sad, no more. After this day, I get out of bed and flutter. It’s not worth holding back all the emotions in yourself, give yourself time to throw them out, they need to get out of you so that at some point you don’t explode. Learn to let go of sadness, emotions, problems, people. If something brings sadness, then it is not for you. Once you understand this, you will begin to easily remove all unnecessary things from your life quickly and without. You can not get out of discouragement, start with daily rituals. It seems like a trifle, but you will be surprised how thoughts in your head and life change.

Take care of yourself, run, draw, compose, sing, create. You will succeed. I always see the good in people, but that doesn't mean I don't see the bad. I see everything. I just like to emphasize the virtues in people, they will show their minuses themselves over time.
I have a magical quality, I disappear with two clicks. The first click is false. The second is empty talk. I really don't like lying people. How is it necessary not to live with dignity, so that you have to lie at every step? It's so difficult, every time you come up with something, get out ... you don't take your time, honestly. Better take care of your life, live with dignity, so that there is no longer any need to lie to anyone.

Well, idle talk is a big separate story. How do you not feel sorry for devaluing your words so much? Know that if you did not keep your word 1,2 and the third time, just automatically everything that you say after that will not be taken seriously. This applies to absolutely everything, from a small call back. Until the big "I'll do it." We ourselves decide how much our word is worth, or rather not so. We ourselves control what the price of our word will be. Well, enough words for the wind ... this is not cool.

First of all, it is self-respect. If you don't respect yourself, how will others respect you?! Do you often lie to yourself? When you say that you will start doing something from tomorrow and don't do it? When you betray your own choice with cheap deeds? This is generally a combo, two in one at once, and a lie to oneself, and idle talk in front of oneself.
People don't change, they adapt to each other's interests if they want to be together. Voluntarily. Don't listen when someone tells you what the person was before you. If this is your person, then with you he will be different. Just like you will become different with him. And this is absolutely normal. One day, waking up every morning, you will feel important and needed. One day, waking up every morning, you will feel needed and needed. And if not .. Then

Drop, drop this disappointing story.

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