Author's Word, Shymkent (2026)

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19/09/2022

How to achieve harmony?
The theme of achieving harmony is relevant for everyone, because this is one of the main arguments that a person is happy. To achieve internal and external harmony, it is necessary:

📌 Enjoy a new day every day, experiencing a sense of joy, because no day is like the previous one.
📌 Before falling asleep, remember the pleasant moments of the day, and also do not forget to praise yourself.
📌 Take a walk every day, enjoy the image of nature. This will help not only satisfy yourself aesthetically, but also contribute to good sleep.
📌 You should carefully analyze relationships with loved ones and colleagues.
📌 You should learn how to properly get out of the conflict without igniting it.
📌 You need to clearly formulate goals, writing them down as a kind of personal message, while it is best to set several small goals in order to achieve one global one.

Living in harmony with yourself and others is quite difficult, but it is possible with daily work. You can achieve harmony by learning to understand your emotions and manage them.

18/09/2022

Four types of negation.

Denial is a mechanism of unconscious refusal to recognize some painful aspects of external reality or subjective experiences that are obvious to other people.

Our psyche is so arranged that if we are in an uncomfortable situation for too long, or the suffering from some situation exceeds the limit that we cannot bear, then it includes psychological protection in the form of denial. It manifests itself in the form of a refusal to admit to oneself the existence of something undesirable. Denial protects us from unpleasant emotions and feelings, but has a serious drawback - it does not lead to a solution to the problem, or worse, it distorts our thinking and behavior. For example, you can deny important physical needs (food, sleep, s*x), emotional needs (love, acceptance, support), financial problems, and even your own mortality.

So, there are 4 types of denial:

1️⃣ Priority (rational) denial.

A person inspires himself, and at the same time his partner (or a person who is somehow dependent) with the idea that I (or we) now have “wrong” circumstances, or “wrong” time: it’s difficult with money, children study, no a separate apartment, you need to make a career, the global financial crisis, etc.

2️⃣ Idealistic (infantile) denial.

A person thinks that somehow (in some magical way), or over time, everything will be settled, the problem will "dissolve". For example, a woman who is not respected, beaten or cheated by her husband may think: "If I behave like a Vedic woman, then the man will appreciate it, he will understand everything, he will change."

Or the words of a drug addict: "I'm not sick, it's just that now is too difficult a period in my life, so I use drugs. Soon everything will work out, and I'll quit."

Or a religiously humble variant: "everything is for the best," "I deserve it," or "for all the will of God," which forms the position of the victim. This kind of denial allows you to completely remove responsibility for the situation.

3️⃣ Aggressive (emotional) denial.

A person with a sense of righteous anger defends his erroneous position in front of other people who tell him there is a problem, despite the fact that he knows about it and feels unhappy in these circumstances.

Self-conceit (false pride), morbid pride, expressed in such a person in the setting "I'm right, and you're wrong" does not allow him to admit that he has a problem or that he, in principle, may have them.

4️⃣ Unconditional (dissociative) denial.

It may look like manipulation ("who's here?"). The person "pretends" that he has not heard or understood the information about his problem that he has just been told. Sometimes he doesn’t even “pretend”, but actually doesn’t hear, doesn’t understand, or doesn’t remember (they say about such people that they are like “in a tank”, or “hello again”), since hearing, thinking or memory blocked by affective feelings. Therefore, a person may again ask the same question (or in a different wording), or talk about a problem in the hope of hearing the answer that suits him.

17/09/2022

How can a woman control her power?
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1 If a wife does not notice the negative qualities of her husband’s character, but constantly only praises and pays attention to the positive qualities of her husband, then the negative qualities of her husband are gradually eliminated.

2 If a wife does not trust her husband, then no one trusts him.

3 If a wife sees only the good in everything, then she sets her husband to such a worldview.

4 If the wife is dissatisfied, then everyone in the family will be dissatisfied.

5 If a wife is not devoted to her husband, then the family will not be happy.

6 If a wife does not hide anything from her husband, opens her heart, then the husband will not be able to deceive his wife and change her.

7 If a wife sincerely serves her husband, then she will be able to avoid all the difficulties in life, she will be protected.

8 If the wife is sympathetic to the temperament of her husband, then the husband will move mountains for her sake.

9 If a wife considers her husband a “not the best” option, then her husband will begin to cheat on her, such a woman will not be happy and the family will break up.

10 If a wife treats her husband too dryly, does not give all her love, tenderness and affection, then her husband will begin to abuse alcohol.

If the family falls apart, then the woman first of all makes efforts, with her Universal power, energy, she should attract only positive, blissful thoughts, and the husband will begin to act in the same direction already with his strength.

Wife is energy, Husband is strength. The Secret Power of a woman, directed to her husband with the help of the Energy of the Universe, will bring tangible results.

16/09/2022

Nomophobia - what is it?

Two-thirds of people suffer from a phobia of forgetting their mobile phone.
Recent studies by SecurEnvoy show that about 66% of people suffer from nomophobia - the fear of being anywhere without a mobile phone.

For the first time, they started talking about nomophobia in 2008 - then it was described as “the fear of being out of touch,” writes The Telegraph.
Recent studies have shown that this fear is somewhat deeper than thought, and that more people suffer from it.

So, in the framework of the new study, about 1 thousand people were interviewed. Two-thirds of them admitted that they were afraid of losing their mobile phone. 41% said they carry two phones with them for such an event.

The most susceptible to nomophobia are young people aged 18 to 24 years (77%), followed by the age group from 25 to 34 years (68%), and even older people - from 55 years and older.

Nearly half of those surveyed would be upset if their partner or spouse read messages on their cell phone.

“The first study on nomophobia we conducted a few years ago showed that about 55% of people are affected by it. Now we see that this percentage has grown to 66% in Britain alone, and continues to grow,” says Andy Kemshall, one of the founders of SecuEnvoy.

“According to our other study, people check their cell phone for messages an average of 34 times a day,” he adds.

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