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THE ZEIGARNIK EFFECT
(Source: New England Journal of Medicine)

You pull out the key to open your house. You unlock the door and get inside. Then several hours later you're looking for the key and wondering where it is. And you discover that you have left it behind on the door. Has this happened to you?

To understand why it happens, let’s flashback to Bluma Zeigarnik, a Russian psychologist. One evening, Zeigarnik and her friends went out for dinner to a restaurant. They had a lovely meal. Guess what the highlight was? It was the service. More specifically, their waiter. He had an amazing memory. So as everybody placed their orders, he remembered every little detail, without writing anything down. He remembered who ordered what. And how they wanted it. Zeigarnik and her friends were all amazed by the waiter's memory.

After the meal, they were driving back when Zeigarnik discovered that she had left her jacket behind in the restaurant. So she turned around, drove back to the restaurant and sought out that friendly waiter who she knew would be happy to help her locate her jacket. Imagine her horror though when she found the waiter, but the waiter didn't even recognize her. What happened?

It got Zeigarnik thinking. And her research then showed how our brain tends to work. When a task is completed, our brain hits the delete button. And our memory gets wiped clean. Our short-term memory struggles with space to retain information. So, it keeps only the unfinished tasks alive. And the minute a task is completed it hits the delete button. And that's why waiters at restaurants will remember every little detail of your order. But only until the bill is made. That’s why when we photocopy a document, we pick up the copy and walk away, leaving the original behind. This has come to be known as the Zeigarnik effect. A term that describes how our short-term memory deletes completed tasks. Fascinating, isn't it?

The Zeigarnik effect might explain why at a bank’s ATM, you are now required to pull your card out before collecting the cash. They know Zeigarnik will be at play and once you collect the cash, the task is finished and good chance you will forget to take your card back.

It's something we can all put to good use. In serials, every episode ends tantalisingly. Each episode ends at a point where you will say ‘wow, what happens next? You want to know; you want to come back. There is no closure at the end of that episode and that's what brings us back all the time. Had there been closure, chances are we’d quickly forget about it. Maybe a powerful idea for all of us. If there is something you want to make sure remains alive, keep it just a bit unfinished. Writing a book? Make sure you end every writing session at a point of suspense or tension. Don’t resolve it. Don’t finish it. That will bring you back next day to writing again.

The Zeigarnik effect might also explain my favourite piece of communication advice. It’s this. Someone said that there are really two golden rules of communication: 1. Never tell everything at once.
That’s it. Ah, the Zeigarnik effect!

The writer is an author, speaker and leadership coach and former MD of Kimberly Clark Lever BEST BRAINS.

The Director of the George Washington University School of Medicine argues that the brain of an older person is much more practical than is commonly believed. At this age, the interaction of the right and left hemispheres of the brain becomes harmonious, which expands our creative possibilities. That is why among people over 60 years of age you can find many personalities who have just started their creative activities.

Of course, the brain is no longer as fast as it was in youth. However, it gains in flexibility. Therefore, with age, we are more likely to make the right decisions and are less exposed to negative emotions. The peak of human intellectual activity occurs around the age of 70, when the brain begins to function at full strength.

Over time, the amount of myelin in the brain increases, a substance that facilitates the rapid passage of signals between neurons. Due to this, intellectual abilities increase by 300% compared to the average.

Also interesting is the fact that after 60 years, a person can use 2 hemispheres at the same time. This allows you to solve much more complex problems.

Professor Monchi Uri, from the University of Montreal, believes that the old man's brain chooses the path that consumes less energy, eliminates the unnecessary and leaves only the right options to solve the problem. A study was conducted involving different age groups. Young people were very confused when passing the tests, while those over 60 years of age made the right decisions.

Now, let's look at the characteristics of the brain between the ages of 60 and 80. They are really pink.

CHARACTERISTICS OF THE BRAIN OF AN ELDERLY PERSON.

1. Neurons in the brain do not die, as everyone around you says. The connections between them simply disappear if one does not engage in mental work.

2. Distraction and forgetfulness arise due to an overabundance of information. Therefore, it is not necessary for you to concentrate your whole life on unnecessary trifles.

3. From the age of 60, a person, when making decisions, does not use one hemisphere at the same time, like young people, but both.

4. Conclusion: if a person leads a healthy lifestyle, moves, has viable physical activity and is fully mentally active, intellectual abilities do NOT decrease with age, they simply GROW, reaching a peak at the age of 80-90 years.

So do not be afraid of old age. Strive to develop intellectually. Learn new crafts, make music, learn to play musical instruments, paint pictures! Take an interest in life, meet and communicate with friends, plan for the future, travel as best you can. Do not forget to go to shops, shows. Don't shut up alone, it's destructive to anyone. Live with the thought: all good things are still ahead of me!

Reframing thoughts.Whenever we notice unhelpful thoughts in our mind, we reframe them into more useful thoughts.Life is ...
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Reframing thoughts.

Whenever we notice unhelpful thoughts in our mind, we reframe them into more useful thoughts.

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抑郁者最不想听的一句话!
1⃣你就是想太多了,看开些就好了。/你就是玻璃心。(最讨厌的话没有之一。)
你可以说:你想到什么会开心,我们一起去试试吧。

2⃣你连S都不怕,还怕活着吗?(活着比S痛苦多了。)
你可以说:在你决定要S之前告诉我吧,我还想带你看看这个世界。

3⃣抑郁又不是什么大病。(不是什么大病,却能要了人的命。)
你可以说:我们一起想办法把它治好吧,一起和你的抑郁和平共处。

4⃣在难受哭泣的时候(不要一直问怎么了,或者在ta倾诉的时候打断ta)
你可以:什么都不用说,给ta一个拥抱就好了,好好抱抱ta,这个时候是ta最委屈的时候,ta在宣泄自己的负面情绪,请一定不要打断ta发泄自己的情绪。
哪怕你再心疼ta,都不要打断ta好不容易发泄出来的情绪。

5⃣对于自残(这不是懦弱也不是好玩)不要对于有自残行为的抑郁患者有任何的情绪波动。(没有人愿意痛苦的去伤害自己)
你可以说:你一定很难受吧,伤口是不是很痛,我帮你处理一下吧。

6⃣你想过爱你的人吗?他们这样会多心疼你。(一般的患病人都是为别人考虑的太多才让自己那么难受的,所以这个时候就不要再让TA学会换位思考了)
你可以说:请给我们一点时间,让我们慢慢了解你,学会理解你可以吗?

7⃣做父母的千万不要说为了我好好的活下去,或能不能替我们考虑一下(大多数患者的病因都来自原生家庭)
你可以说:这些年你一定吃了很多苦,我知道的,我们都知道的,很抱歉在你最难的时候没有陪伴在你身边。

8⃣你怎么又不开心了,你又怎么了?(一般抑郁症患者都是多巴胺分泌变少,所以悲伤的情绪被放大化了)
你可以说:你现在很难受吧,没关系,我会陪着你的.

9⃣一天天吃饱了撑的,动不动就不想活了(大多数患者是因为已经到了躯体化,头痛,呼吸困难,木僵,发抖和无休止的难过等等,就是因为这些痛苦才会常常想要结束生命)
你可以说:我们去医院吧,心理医生一定有办法能让你好受些,如果你不愿意去,我可以抱抱你吗?

1⃣0⃣世界上比你惨的人多了去了
请一定不要这么说!抑郁症患者并不是想要和谁比惨,只是在发病的时候觉得没有人可以理解ta,这样说只会增加ta的罪恶感。

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