Oladeji Elegbede

12/11/2025

12/11/2025

Invest in yourself

12/11/2025

You are not you

You see, I've come to realize something and I'd like to share it with you.

This little observation will determine if you'll be successful or if you'll continue to live in the trenches.

I might be blunt with words but that's just the truth.

You see, it happens to the best people and even you are not excluded.

For you not to be part of this again that's why I'll share it with you right now

But before I do, I need to say something.

This is one of the many posts that you'll be receiving from me…

And I can't wait to keep sharing them with you.

But it won't be nice if I'm the only one doing the talking…

How will you feel if you're talking to your best friend and he/she keeps staring at you without saying just a single word?

That's exactly how I'll feel if you seldom reply or comment.

Though we might not always agree and that's normal…

But why will you keep your opinions to yourself?

Your opinions and thoughts are always welcome.

That aside. Now back to my observation.

You see, your mindset is an integral part of what makes you.

The way you see things and what you believe in forms you…

That's why you need to disorientate yourself a lot…

Especially when you have a toxic or morale-dampening childhood.

Because your childhood experience makes up you and who you'll become.

Let me give you an example...

If you were always scared to make mistakes because your parents would scold you.

You'll still be in that shell of trying not to make mistakes.

Because that fear has been subconsciously imprinted in your brain.

That's why you're scared…

Whereas, mistakes are part of life because it shows that you're human and you can always correct yourself.

But if you're scared to do it because of making mistakes…

How will you know if you'll get it right or not?

That's why you need to disorient yourself, especially if you have a toxic childhood.

But there's good news

Of course, you can free your mind from that unforgettable experience of your childhood...

That experience makes up who you are now.

You want to find out?

Stick around for the next post...

PS: If you don't mind telling me one of your unforgettable experiences from your childhoodd

I am in the comment section

Oladeji.

12/11/2025

Stop disturbing me, please!

And I really mean it...

Why are you still following me all around?

Ain't you tired?

When will you stop?

I'll get back to this issue later but first, you need to see this.

You see, 5 minutes ago I never had any idea what I'll base today on...

Not until a message dropped in my inbox from my abandoned bank.

Just because I decided to switch to another bank that has a low maintenance cost...

My abandoned bank has never left me to rest for a minute...

Sometimes they'll even send about 3 emails to me daily...

Mails with different enticing offers. Offers that sometimes it is hard for me to ignore.

Same thing with Airtel, since I have decided not to buy airtime on it again...

They have been sending me constant text messages about different bonuses...

Enticing bonuses, but still I'm not going back to that network

Have you or are you experiencing the same thing?

Not just with your bank or mobile network alone but with any brand or company that you were once using...

Because you decided to stop using them for one reason or another...

They have been sending you tons of messages.

You see, what they're trying to do is to keep reminding you that you could still need their services any day or anytime.

That's why they'll never get tired of sending you messages nonstop...

This is something important you need to know when selling your product or services.

You have to keep showing up every day no matter the disappointment...

Most people might ignore you, and some might say annoying words to you.

Some might say they don't need your product or service at that time.

But that shouldn't stop you from showing and promoting your product or service to them over and over again.

So that when they finally need your service, you'll be the first to come to their mind and not anyone else.

And always remember, you're not the only one selling that product or service to them.

There are thousands of people fighting to get that same attention,

That is why you should always be consistent

Also, while you're consistent, always craft an enticing offer that it will be hard for them to say no to.

You see, several times I've used the abandoned bank because they keep sending offers that're hard for me to say no to.

That's what being consistent with a crazy offer will get you.

Keep pushing they'll surely see you and buy from you.

That's actually why I'm angry sha

My abandoned bank keeps sending me irresistible offers.

When will they stop?

Sigh🤧

Oladeji

08/11/2025

I saw this on my timeline, and I can resonate.

Even though the past is a crucial part of our lives, dwelling in the past has never helped and will never help.

Take courage, zeal, and responsibility from the past to propel both the present and the future

08/11/2025

A clever person solves a problem and receives thank you....

But a wise person solves a problem and charge people for it.. be smart

08/11/2025

08/11/2025

Thiss

There are many reasons why you are not making sales despite your efforts. And I will be highlighting just 2

1. Selling to the wrong audience: You see, you have to know that your product or service is not for everyone, which is why you have to have an ideal target customer. It saves the stress of trying to sell to everyone because selling to everyone is selling to no one

2. Highlight your customer benefits not yours: You have to describe why your product is ideal for your target audience, and how your product can help them. Not just about talking about yourself and your expertise.

There are still many more reasons you barely make sales, and if you would like to increase your sales, as an ER- Copywriter & Marketer.

I might just be the one you need to craft out persuasive sales message that can skyrocket your sales.

Send a DM or reply to this so I can help you today

08/11/2025

You can be procrastinating thinking you're planning

There's a thin line between these two
You have to know when to draw it

08/11/2025

Your success won’t announce itself overnight.
But one day, consistency will make noise for you.

08/11/2025

Don’t just post.
Think.
Every content piece should either teach, trigger, or transform your audience.
Otherwise, it’s just noise.

03/11/2025

After a sabbatical from copywriting and writing in general due to constraints.

Trust me, going back and starting over afresh is not easy, definitely it is not a bed of roses

I tried continuing with some of the projects I once started, but it looked as if I wasn’t the one who started it. I was dumbfounded.

But you see, I remembered the saying of one those I look up to, he said…

When you feel clueless and don’t know what to do, just find your way back to the basics”

I’ve been going through the basics and foundation once again, and I have been elated thrilled and rejuvenated

I have been building on those foundation and also mapping out the way forward

One of my little implementation of the basics is writing daily…

You see, I have a mail list where I share value constantly to my list, not forgetting my rants too. It is definitely worth 2 minutes of your time reading.

If you'll like to join the train. Below is the link

https://bit.ly/3J05N5y

See you at the other end