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28/04/2023

Picking from the discussion, the following worths our second thought
1). Family Planning is Not Sin, except like in the case of Tamar's husbands where they deliberately want to stop conception. Otherwise with the reasons mentioned for Family Planning, it is not a SIN
Beside, what is the point of giving birth to many children when you cannot take care of them? The Bible regard such parents as worst to unbeliever
However, one must first pray to God, and then consult a medical personnel for proper guidance and advice
2). On no account should a woman contemplate abortion, except there is a condition that is live threatening. Abortion whatever kind is a SIN.
In the case of the woman in the story above is , first she didn't act in wisdom. She's carried away by emotion and the pains of losing her husband.
There's always need for us as children of God to always have the wisdom of God, she could have consult the Holy Spirit, family members and Spiritual guidance and Godly medical personnel.
Permit me to recommend, young couples to have mentors, (People that you can easily meet and seek counsel when such challenges arises)
3). The husband, he is a total definition of an irresponsible husband, it's possible his reasons may align with the reasons for family planning as stated in our above submissions. But truth be said the husband did not act in love. Though he might argued he never knew it could lead to her death but his action is clearly an exhibition of a canal man who doesn't understand that Children are gifts from God, he probably belief that is in his ability to pregnant a woman and have a baby.
Husbands, I mean Christian husbands, please always evaluate your actions, decisions and choices with Jesus as the ultimate Standard, less we drive our submissive wives in to hell all in the name of being the head

Someone asked me this questionIs family planning a sin for Christian couple.A scenario happened some years back in a dis...
28/04/2023

Someone asked me this question
Is family planning a sin for Christian couple.

A scenario happened some years back in a distant place (True life story). This couple agreed to pause with child bearing, after having 3 kids. Some how the woman who happens to be the one to actualize the plan by taking the dose for the family planning is not cool with the idea. She wants to have 4 children but the husband disapprove her request even after intense persuasion.
After some years, she went ahead and took in, and this act of hers was not pleasant to the man, he became furious and term her deed an act of disrespect.
He further threatened her to abort the pregnancy or face the consequences of bad attitude.
The woman thought he will come around as the day goes by, unfortunately for her after 5months, the hatred keep increasing by day, he care not about her well being despite her condition, he ignored her any time she complained whether about the unborn baby or her personal needs, all he cared about that time was his living children.
This persisted until she got fed up with his actions and she decided to terminate a 5 months pregnancy to maintain peace in her home. Unfortunately for her, that process ends her life😭😭😭
Now, the discussion I wish we'll streamline our responses for better understanding
1). Is family planning is sin, with Respect to "being fruitful quotations in the Bible"
2). Why should a married woman contemplate abortion (using the case study, was there any best way for her to handle the case at hand?)
3). Why do you think the man acted the way he acted? Whatever his reasons do you think it worth it?
4). And many more response you can draw from the story.
Thank you

Shine your eye and shine your brain before marriage, invest in your single-hood well, and build capacity. Because love a...
14/01/2023

Shine your eye and shine your brain before marriage, invest in your single-hood well, and build capacity. Because love alone can't sustain marriage, meanwhile like and follow our page

RE:GETTING MARRIED OR SINGLE LIFE, WHICH ONE MAKES YOU MORE SUCCESSFUL?Failure in life is predictable, so also is succes...
14/01/2023

RE:GETTING MARRIED OR SINGLE LIFE, WHICH ONE MAKES YOU MORE SUCCESSFUL?
Failure in life is predictable, so also is success predictable to a person or an institution. Your ability to be successful or a failure depends on you and what you do with your time. It has nothing or little to do with marriage or singleness. When you look around the society today you would agree with me that there are people who it’s possible were given birth in the same environment, attended the same Primary, Secondary and even University but then one is more successful than the other. The possible reason and/or different between these two set of people is MINDSET. A mindset is the sustained thinking pattern, is the sum total of your ideology. The stage you are now is the accurate reflection of your mindset. So it is possible you marry and then blessing begin to flow as it is been content in the Bible “He who finds a wife find a good thing” but then we must not over look the place of hard work and determination to be successful which it pays. When you are convince and have a positive mindset about success and you have a positive desire to pursue to dream friends you will be successful whether married or single. Remember, singleness is not a curse nor it is a sin, it is a stage of life. Worthy of note is your ability to access the will of God for your Life, because when ever your effort is in line with the will of God for your life, it become easy to succeed. THINK POSITIVE TODAY.

GETTING MARRIED OR SINGLE LIFE, WHICH ONE MAKES YOU  MORE SUCCESSFUL?Does getting married make you happier, healthier, m...
13/01/2023

GETTING MARRIED OR SINGLE LIFE, WHICH ONE MAKES YOU MORE SUCCESSFUL?

Does getting married make you happier, healthier, more integrated into society, and better off in all sorts of other physical, emotional, and interpersonal ways? Although ,i think there are important ways in which lifelong single people do better than people who get married. But I don’t think there is a simple answer to the question of whether it is better to stay single or get married.

What is likely to be true is that some people live their best lives by marrying, whereas others live their best, most authentic, most meaningful and fulfilling lives by living single.

Over to the singles and married..lets hear opinions

UNDERSTANDING THE PRINCIPLE OF PREPARATION AND STRATEGIC THINKINGDaniel Zumji GenesisIt is no longer news that we live i...
12/01/2023

UNDERSTANDING THE PRINCIPLE OF PREPARATION AND STRATEGIC THINKING
Daniel Zumji Genesis
It is no longer news that we live in Country today with numerous challengesPermit me to take you into the definition of this yearA new year is an opportunity for all of us to look at live from a fresh perspectiveWhat are these perspectives?a). A new year allows you to redefine your PRIORITYWhat are the important things in your life?b). A new year allow you to redefine your PurposeWhat is your reason for living?c). It allow you to take another look at your VISIONYour personal vision, your family vision, organization, Church, society and even your countryd). A new year also give you opportunity to research your GOALSThose target that were not met in the past, might be renewed some eve cancelled because there are not relevante). New year also allow you forget some things that didn’t work in the past year and focus in the FUTURE Planning is the most important principle of success in lifeWithout a plan, time and change will ruin your life2023 is a year of change and new beginning. When you change the way you see, everything you see changesNew Year is a new chapter, if you lost something last year, this is a new chapterIf you lost ……., is a New chapterBecause in a new year, everything will changeHowever, everything you want God to change you must plan itBut unfortunate for us today, change is the greatest challenge of our timeWe must deliberately desire changeThis is why you cannot sit watching the game any moreSpectators and observers will be destroy by changeDoing nothing is no longer an option, you have to get involve in what happens to you and the society, staying to watch will be destructive now, get involve else change will destroy youIf you sit back and watch your life, live will change your life in a way you’ll regret itIf you don’t do something with your life this year, you will regret it next yearLadies and gentlemen if you don’t plan, live will plan your life for youSO HOW TO MAKE PLANS FOR THE YEARGet a vision board and make your dreams come trueWrite down what you will love to achieve this year and make sure you follow the principle afterward, it is admission, car, read 20 books, anything you wish to achieve, your vision can be never to date this year, anything but make sure you pursue it, be diligent about observing itIf your goal this year is to save money, start a business or anything just write them down in a vision board and work towards achieving it. REASONS: So that it can remind you of a target that need to be achieve day when you walk in and walk out of the houseHOWEVER, before you start anything, you must be determine to work hard towards achieving whatever your vision is, else at the end of the year you might look at the vision board and be sad rather than getting excited, Vision boards are not short cut to success, there are motivation to work hard, so if you’re not willing to work hard don’t even borderSecondly, Count the cost; don’t be over excited in setting a vision not minding the cost implication Luke 14: 28. For example if your goal is to save 100,000 this year, 100,000 12 = 8333.3 monthly, so you must make more than that to be able to save up to that amount, because for every resources that comes to you there are two components in it. The seed and the bread component(Consider your expenditure also if you really want to save money)Thirdly, Plan with Prayer, for self control, discipline and divine intervention. You dream, you work and leave the rest in God’s hand. Be careful, God knows what is best for you, sometime your desire might consume you and God might decide to withhold it from you, do not panic always commit to God and you’ll have restMost importantly, paste it where you will always see itAlso not everybody need to see your vision board, cause not everybody will believe your dreams and when that happens it can demoralize you

12/01/2023

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